what is great being a boy/girl?
• Janesville, Wisconsin
28 Dec 06
Both, Boy and Girl is very good learning standpoints have its benefit and downsides.... .. I saw myself a a little boy, and the school system respected this so I always used the boys bathroom, lined up with the boys, did everything with the boys. But when I came home my parents did not accept this, so I had had to be girl, wear dresses, do things girls did that I did not want much to do with. But as soon as I got outdoors I took off to the woods to be myself. Which naturally growing up shows boy traits, and girl traits. The Boys Got better Action Toys. The Girls got better creative and art toys. Boys were taught to be strong and non emotional, the girls were allowed to be emotional, but were taught not to let the boys take advantage... Girls did the indoor chores, Boys did the outdoor chores... That is how it was in our family... In our family they do better at raising girls... Boys, Tend to get to stressed out cause the girls in our family out number the men... .. Me I am two spirited, as long as I am allowed to do both girl and boy things. It does not matter what my gender is or was. What I think should matter is people do not force a girl or a boy to do this or not do this because of their gender.... Teach them how to be appropriate for their gender at the right places, but do not force them to not be as they feel comfortable with when they do not have to be. If feel happier being allowed to Express both my Girl and Boy side anytime anywhere in any way that is needed to be myself. That is when I feel happiest. :) . Take care, - DNatureofDTrain