Should my friend be blaming me for him cheating on his own girlfriend?

United States
September 15, 2006 5:36pm CST
My best friend recently decided to hate me and no longer talk to me because his exgf asked me if he cheated on her and i confirmed it but they had been broken up for 9 months already and he cheated on her with so many girls and so he hates me and wants to kill me. Do you think I am wrong for what I did or do you think it is his fault?
3 responses
• United States
20 Nov 06
While it is his fault, you should have let him speak up for it. Or you could have just been like, "I don't know, you should take that up with him". I'm friends with a few guys who are in a band and they have girlfriends and if there ever came a time where their girlfriends asked me if they were cheating on them, or wanted dirt about them, I wouldn't tell them anything. The simple reason being I am friends with them and not their girlfriends. I'm not about to rat them out no matter how bad it is. My loyalty would go to my friend's, not whoever the person is they are dating. As bad as it sounds, it's life.
• United States
16 Sep 06
No, it not your fault, but than sometimes, these subjects are better off just listening it and let it go. You dont want to get caught in middle of it. I been there and dont want to do it again. But you friend need to realized that he is the one who cheated on his ex gf and dont need to blame you for his exgf finding out about it.
• United States
16 Sep 06
It's his fault; he was, and is, wrong. You were just responding truthfully. Why would it matter if they had already broken up?