Is it possible to love again once that you loved and failed?

India
September 16, 2006 2:38am CST
I just cant get that girl out of memory.Will i ever get out of this depression?
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@Jax310 (207)
• United States
26 Sep 06
Ok, look if u love her, an she loved you... there is still hope, jus talk to her..... Or live up bein single while u can, Fa real tho, sho them girls whas guud, cuz they cant hate tha playa , they gots ta hate tha game..... PIM C
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• United States
26 Sep 06
Yes you can and you should take time. I know how you feel down and lonly. Take the time you need to clear your head. you want to be free of this love. Befor emoving on to the next. I have been 6 months alone and loved it. I now met mr. cutie and my heart is free and clear. Let life take it's cource and you'll love it. good luck and take care
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• India
26 Sep 06
its tough
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@Deja88 (113)
• United States
26 Sep 06
Eventually...sometimes it just takes some time to do it. :) I know the feeling tho...just...I think about a particular guy all the time. After years though, its let up a bit. :) ;)
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@kesav010 (1686)
• India
17 Sep 06
Yes of course. it is because poeple change constantly...u will nd the girl will also... even a day can make a difference...but sometimes it times even years..so keep ur fingers crossed...
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@teddymeyn (607)
• India
17 Sep 06
yea sure u can do tht if u had loved her/him truely
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@drgsbs (9)
• India
17 Sep 06
definitely yes. Only thing is it takes time to change. So give some time to make it possible.
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@kotska_03 (114)
• United States
17 Sep 06
just move on toyour life... whatever can make her happy, do the same... maybe she just chose what can make herself happy or for you to find someone better...
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@Grrrwork (308)
• United States
17 Sep 06
Yes, but it takes time and effort, the best thing to do is to just move on with your life.
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@mai720 (329)
• United States
16 Sep 06
yes. it takes time. everyone goes through it.
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@chalmette69 (3010)
• United States
16 Sep 06
I was married before and totally in love with this man and things just didn't work out, for a while, I was heart broken, but I am now married again and have a wonderful new life, it will take some time, but you will get over it and meet another person, more wonderful than the one you think is so wonerful now.
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@SunnyDays (1071)
• Bahamas
16 Sep 06
You will get over it eventually and you will be able to love again BUT you should use this time now not only to reflect on the girl but also on the reasons why this love failed - What didn't work and why If you do the hard work you will have a succesful and loving realtionship eventually The worst thing you can do is dwelling on the past ..it takes away the chance to reflect on the positive things in your life here and NOW !!~ Good luck on your journey
• India
16 Sep 06
no i lost faith in love and wont repeat it again
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@Nahara (1673)
• Israel
16 Sep 06
That's just up to u if u really want to move on and to get her out of your memory then yes, believe me i've been there too.
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• India
16 Sep 06
ya it will hardly take sometime...... u can change ur mind by concentrating on ur studies or work..... so thr' this u can relish ur memory
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@ransome (276)
• Nigeria
16 Sep 06
yes if there is any acception
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@coolgal (14)
• India
16 Sep 06
yes we can..as per human psycology in all the stages of life we may admire someone.and in all stages of life we may happen to love someone...some may b infactuations some may b true and rarely some r lasting..so love is continuously hapening in our life.
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@Sweety76 (1596)
• India
16 Sep 06
Yes, it should be otherwise your life will become dull and you wont be able to concentrate... just take as whatever happens, happens for the good and continue ur life
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@vimal2k6 (391)
• India
16 Sep 06
yes definitely possible and u can accept the love, always mutual understanding is very important...
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• Philippines
16 Sep 06
everything takes time.the process of grief starts with denial and followed by anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.normally, it could last for 6 months to 2 years.what you are feeling right now, i believe is something real.but don't be in a hurry to try and forget what has happened.it will all heal in due time.they say loving is a process.when you get hurt, you start being angry.and when you do, you tend to forget the pain.by then, you will eventually start missing...then you fall in love again.=)
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