my friend changed & dissed me now she wants things to go back because she is peg
December 4, 2006 1:53pm CST
ok so my friend ( we are friend but not like best friends ya know) she has been kinds out there lately she used to be a really good girl and had a steady boyfriend and was really sweet well he bf broke up with her and hurt her badly but she won't admitt it. now she has been seeing 2 guy and sleeping with them. she had become very obnouixous and up in your face telling me all the details about stuff i REALLY don't want to know. so i kinda backed down stoped seeing here less and stoped talking to her and you can tell thinks have changed between us. and she has even mentioned it before too. well now she thinks she might be pregant by one of the guys. and now she wants things to go back to the way they were. i don't think this is possible and she is scared and doesn't know what to do and she says she has taken a step back from her life and can't belive she did all that and all. so what do i do what do i tell her?
• United States
4 Dec 06
You need to be honest with her. You can tell her how she hurt you, and support her as a friend if you feel that you can and want to do this. Let her know that you are willing to help her if you choose to do so, but also let her know that a friendship is not just one sided. Make sure she understands that you are not just there when she wants you to be aand that a friendship takes two.
• United States
5 Dec 06
Thats a tough situation. Believe me, I know because I was in the same spot once. I would tell you to forgive her and support her but that would be hypocritical because I dissed my friend, told her she hurt me and that she had to regain my trust, and walked out. I guess its all about how badly she hurt you.