Can a man love a fat woman?
By nfsgirl
@nfsgirl (59)
South Africa
668 responses
@DJBounce (84)
• Australia
17 Sep 06
Well, I'm a man and am married to someone who wouldn't fit in most of the "fashionable" clothes, and I love her more than anything!
At the end of the day, true love has nothing to do with looks... if you love someone enough, they are beautiful no matter what they look like or how much they weigh... personally, I'd prefer someone who is a little overweight and has a beautiful personality than a skinny person who is obsessed with their appearance...
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@clownfish (3272)
• United States
20 Oct 06
Mine says he loves me no matter what! I'm glad, too, cause I haven't exactly stayed skinny, but I'm working on getting healthier, no matter what clothes size I end up in!
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@utkarshkks (664)
• India
16 Oct 06
Hey i know Vimal2k6 you too are fat i have seen you and i think i know you you are from mumbai(if i am right)?
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@tishabest (602)
• Belgium
17 Sep 06
When you love someone nothing as superficial as outwards appearance matters. We lose on getting to know really incredible people because of our prejudices.
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@unlimited7 (92)
• United States
21 Dec 06
the question is Can he love a skinny woman too? Honestly, men cheat, hurt, break up with, love, marry, all kinds of women; skinny, plumpy, beautiful, ugly, tiny, huge! It doesn't matter about size or looks.
At the end of the day, it's about personalitie and if a woman feels good about herself. Esteem will take you a long way! I truly believe what the bible says, the flesh produces no good thing. If the relationship is just based on that, it won't last for long, too superficial.
Halle Berry is a wonderful actress, but I think she serves as a wonderful example that it takes more than beauty to make a relationship work.
@sweetcakes (3504)
• United States
17 Sep 06
its possible. everybody cant have a beauty queen.
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@Thunderdome (215)
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20 Oct 06
Oh My God. Please do NOT give him the satisfaction of seeing you cry. He probably has a brain about the size of HIS LIttle bitty private parts...Honestly, honey, size has nothing to do with who you are. I believe God has full figured angels in Heaven. So many people look at beautiful smaller women who are immoral and dont give a crap about anything but themselves. Give yourself a break and love yourself.
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@clownfish (3272)
• United States
20 Oct 06
Absolutely! People who don't love you for who you are - you don't need them! Get rid of those idiots! Everyone deserves to be loved for who they are as a person.
@hjsreehari (459)
• India
17 Sep 06
nothing is possible.this case is nothing.so it is possible
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@alon28miami (540)
• United States
17 Sep 06
offcourse it is possible, there are men out there that prefer a larger woman
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@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
17 Sep 06
yes a man can love a fat woman, true men are visially oriented but i think thats not the summation of every thing why men cannot love fat wmomen. greetings. : )
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@rainbow (6761)
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17 Sep 06
I'm not exactly streamlined and I still get plenty of men alk to me when I go out. I think men are attracted to someone who lookes like they are enjoying themselves and could be fun to spend time with. Shrek chatted me up when I was six months pregnant and we're still together and I'm bigger than I was then. He said I looked like fun waiting to happen. (?) Everyone has different tastes and personality can make up for a lot of other stuff. I can't say I've never found a fat man attractive, it depends on the person not just the shell.
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@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
18 Sep 06
yes u can....it's the heart that counts more than the physcial self...almost every gal gets fat after de 1st baby rite....sooo wots the point of going after a slim beauty queen.....n u may talk over wid her n she can loose over a few pounds 4 u if she loves u.......simple.....by de way wot good will a madonna b 4 u if she shows u her attitude
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