Can a man love a fat woman?

South Africa
September 16, 2006 5:31pm CST
OK... Guys tell me what you think? I think it is almost impossible for a man to love a fat woman. Men are visially orientated.
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@DJBounce (84)
• Australia
17 Sep 06
Well, I'm a man and am married to someone who wouldn't fit in most of the "fashionable" clothes, and I love her more than anything! At the end of the day, true love has nothing to do with looks... if you love someone enough, they are beautiful no matter what they look like or how much they weigh... personally, I'd prefer someone who is a little overweight and has a beautiful personality than a skinny person who is obsessed with their appearance...
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@Grrrwork (308)
• United States
17 Sep 06
I'm fat and my husband says he loves me.
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@dixielol (1581)
• United States
20 Oct 06
dredstar what a lovely comment
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@clownfish (3278)
• United States
20 Oct 06
Mine says he loves me no matter what! I'm glad, too, cause I haven't exactly stayed skinny, but I'm working on getting healthier, no matter what clothes size I end up in!
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@Sezara (169)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Same here, my hubby loves the junk in my trunk too! Of course, I overlook his chicken legs so it evens out.
@sweetcakes (3505)
• United States
17 Sep 06
its possible. everybody cant have a beauty queen.
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• India
20 Oct 06
size no bar in love
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20 Oct 06
Oh My God. Please do NOT give him the satisfaction of seeing you cry. He probably has a brain about the size of HIS LIttle bitty private parts...Honestly, honey, size has nothing to do with who you are. I believe God has full figured angels in Heaven. So many people look at beautiful smaller women who are immoral and dont give a crap about anything but themselves. Give yourself a break and love yourself.
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@clownfish (3278)
• United States
20 Oct 06
Absolutely! People who don't love you for who you are - you don't need them! Get rid of those idiots! Everyone deserves to be loved for who they are as a person.
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@vimal2k6 (391)
• India
17 Sep 06
hey you are wrong, u know i love fatty womans very much and i am ver crazy about them.. really i love them..
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• India
14 Oct 06
even i like fat women but not extreme fat!!!
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@easy123 (1486)
• India
15 Oct 06
fat woman is always good girl
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• India
16 Oct 06
Hey i know Vimal2k6 you too are fat i have seen you and i think i know you you are from mumbai(if i am right)?
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@tishabest (602)
• Belgium
17 Sep 06
When you love someone nothing as superficial as outwards appearance matters. We lose on getting to know really incredible people because of our prejudices.
• United States
21 Dec 06
the question is Can he love a skinny woman too? Honestly, men cheat, hurt, break up with, love, marry, all kinds of women; skinny, plumpy, beautiful, ugly, tiny, huge! It doesn't matter about size or looks. At the end of the day, it's about personalitie and if a woman feels good about herself. Esteem will take you a long way! I truly believe what the bible says, the flesh produces no good thing. If the relationship is just based on that, it won't last for long, too superficial. Halle Berry is a wonderful actress, but I think she serves as a wonderful example that it takes more than beauty to make a relationship work.
@Kackie3 (345)
• United States
24 Dec 06
Amen to that! God made us all different because he knew everyone has difference in tastes of how they like and choose their mates.
@atjustin (207)
• India
17 Sep 06
thats rediculous....physical appearence and looks doent matter in love....its the person u love not her looks....u can definitely love a fat person....looks does hold prioeity but dont make it ur prime priority!!!!
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• South Africa
16 Oct 06
Thats what iv been saying.
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@asa010 (1129)
• India
17 Sep 06
why not? whats stopping a man...love is more than someone being fat.
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• India
20 Oct 06
Fully agree asa010
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@vineet06 (43)
• India
17 Sep 06
i think love is somewhat different from physical appearence. its not necessary that you love a person who is realy beautyful or handsome. i think love doesnt look at physical beauty..but ya physical beauty is just an aspect of it.
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@babray06 (1787)
• India
17 Sep 06
I think one can love anyone. "LOVE" doesn't have any restrictions, but it has to be pure Love. If it is anything other than "Love" then looks, beauty comes into effect.
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@moneymind (10524)
• Philippines
17 Sep 06
yes a man can love a fat woman, true men are visially oriented but i think thats not the summation of every thing why men cannot love fat wmomen. greetings. : )
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• India
17 Sep 06
nothing is possible.this case is nothing.so it is possible
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• United States
25 Oct 06
he said it IS possible.
@Aali311 (6127)
• United States
18 Sep 06
Are fat women not people like the rest of us?
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@kalyani1 (183)
• India
18 Sep 06
Why not, Love is basically starts with differnt things not with fat.
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• United States
17 Sep 06
offcourse it is possible, there are men out there that prefer a larger woman
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@rainbow (6763)
17 Sep 06
I'm not exactly streamlined and I still get plenty of men alk to me when I go out. I think men are attracted to someone who lookes like they are enjoying themselves and could be fun to spend time with. Shrek chatted me up when I was six months pregnant and we're still together and I'm bigger than I was then. He said I looked like fun waiting to happen. (?) Everyone has different tastes and personality can make up for a lot of other stuff. I can't say I've never found a fat man attractive, it depends on the person not just the shell.
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@imlex1 (116)
17 Sep 06
there are lots of men who wouldnt find a slim girl attractive and would always plump for a fat girl.
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@Wissam17 (93)
• Saudi Arabia
17 Sep 06
Yes
@vbembot (750)
• Philippines
24 Oct 06
i am not a guy but i know of people who fell inlove despite the size of the woman. Its not the figure of the woman that counts but what is in her heart. The beauty of a woman is in her eyes because its the way to her heart.
@fizza10 (1718)
• Pakistan
18 Sep 06
yes u can....it's the heart that counts more than the physcial self...almost every gal gets fat after de 1st baby rite....sooo wots the point of going after a slim beauty queen.....n u may talk over wid her n she can loose over a few pounds 4 u if she loves u.......simple.....by de way wot good will a madonna b 4 u if she shows u her attitude
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• Egypt
18 Sep 06
i know alot of guys ,who are fond of fat women.
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