an affair with a girl after her marriage....

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India
December 5, 2006 8:22pm CST
hi i loved a girl from the schoolings.. and i just loved her a lot and kissed her too.. and now we are separated and she got married with a man, i just see her before a couple of days before and i went to her home, when i went there her husband was not there.. and just she made me to fall in such activities.. but i did'nt is that correct to have some relationship with her after her marriage......?
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5 responses
@pinkypop (662)
• Philippines
6 Dec 06
No, it is not appropriate for you two to have an affair or relationship since the girl is now already married. Please stop it and give respect to her husband.
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• India
6 Dec 06
ok thanks for ur comment and i will make it possible..
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@tanujarneja (2829)
• India
6 Dec 06
no its absolutely wrong to have a relationship now after her marriage.......you are spoiling 3 lives together......please dont do it now
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@marsha001 (673)
• India
6 Dec 06
No.It is wrong to have a relationship with a married man or woman.She has a husband and she is being unfaithful to him by having an extramarital relationship with you.Have you ever thought what will happen if her husband comes to know about it?Have you ever thought of the consequences? You must stop seeing this girl or going to her house.If you loved her a lot,why didn't you marry her?
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• Janesville, Wisconsin
7 Dec 06
does her Husband no about this? Is he alright with this? If the answer is no, then of course it is not correct. And If you both really love eachother. Then you need to love eachother to leave eachother alone, or she needs to divorce or leave the husband...... Having Affairs is bad, not matter how you look at it. Marriage Commitment is not something to mess with in any culture. When people do their marriage vows, and commit they are suppose to stay committed if they can not commit then break it off. Instead of hang onto the person who is being lead along and cheated on. Please pick a day, when both you her, and him, in a safe place, with some sort of authority around... Can sit and discuss the mistakes you have made, and what to do to resolve this issue... If she chooses to remain with her husband let her go... If she chooses to go with you... You own her husband an apology is how I feel and believe about it... But that is my values, opinion, and beliefs.. Cheating is not good, and affairs are not good, especially behind people backs. Now it is different if you have an open marriage and both partners allow eachother to go with different people with eachother's knowledge.. Nothing wrong with that although many do not like the idea. However, it is wrong when anyone is sneaking behind anyone else back with it, or doing so against the other partners wishes, and expectations. When Marriage vows are said, they are to be kept...And it is not a true relationship or commitment if one is sneaking around or has to sneak around behind the other's back. - DNatureofDTrain
@kawillow74 (1416)
• United States
6 Dec 06
If she is married she need to leave you alone. and same with you,if you have feeling for her you need to stay away if she is already cheat on her new hubby um what do you think she would do with you,
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