My Best Kept Secret.
December 6, 2006 2:24am CST
This happened nine years ago when i was still in college, i just turned 18 then, so young and so naive.I had this boyfriend that is so caring, kind & so sweet,then somethig happened between us and I got pregnant. Too afraid of my parents, the shame it would cause them & my boyfriend just disappeared, i decided to have an abortion (it was on my fifth month of pregnancy). After the abortion my boyfriend showed up and telling me that he feels sorry for me, he did'nt know that i was pregnant (he's a total liar). I slap him & told him not to show his damn face again. Until now only me, my two bestfriends & my husband knows that. No one in my family, relatives & other people had known what had happened to me during those days.
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7 Dec 06
it's no more a secret because you put it into public discussion. anyways its past for you now and just forget it. move on with your life and there's no point thinking about it ever again. when your husband has accepted the facts, it doesn't matter whether the remaining of your family knows about it or not
• United States
7 Dec 06
see i would of told my family.but you were young.and things happen.im glad you actually told someone and didnt keep it bottled up i do not believe in abortions but some people do i think abortions are murder.no offense just my opion.
6 Dec 06
whew! that was so brave of you.I can't say I understand what you have gone thru because I really don't. What I can say to you is that you have to move on and forget the past.Forget the hurt but do not forget the lesson you've learned from that experience.
• South Africa
6 Dec 06
You are not alone in this world!!! I think most people keep secrets of this nature from their family. Most people have a secret that is just to embarresing to tell or too personal to let everyone know. Afterall, we can choose our friends but not our family, and some family members we do not want to be part of our lives!