what should i do?

United States
December 7, 2006 1:07pm CST
I got married in aug of this year. my husband has always smoked pot, but now we have a baby and i want him to quit, am i being a nag or am i in the right?
5 responses
@teenal (970)
• Ireland
7 Dec 06
Depends. Is it just every now and again or all the time. People who smoke regularly are not operating normally. Problems dont get dealt with and it builds up and causes paranoia. My son lost years of his life in a hash haze. Get him to stop now. Its also not good for a small child to be around physically or from a moral point of view.
• United States
7 Dec 06
i'ts actually all the time or anytime he gets stressed, i feel like it takes time away from me, he comes home shuts the bedroom door and stays in there for an hour or so. we got into a fight last night because he wanted to smoke and i got mad because his mother is here in town, and she was just in the next room
@gscs1838 (1536)
• Malaysia
9 Dec 06
yes! you have the right to ask him to stop. honestly, i smoke pot. i do hope that when the time i get married, i will stop this habit. already become a head of the family, must show a little bit good exemple what? hope your husband can quit!!
@jayz965 (21)
• United States
9 Dec 06
well. lets think about this. if he has "always" smoked pot, and you married him, your a nag for sure. Even though he should have enough respect for his baby, not you because you obviously dont care being around it, than he shouldnt smoke around you because of the baby. but i think its your own fault for sure, maybe you should have talked about it before you actually married him, or before you chose to have a baby. good luck with making him quit.
@yupitsme (62)
• United States
9 Dec 06
its kind of your fault because if you knew he always smoked pot then why did you marry him?? but anyways if it really concerns you then I would say yell at him and explain that he needs to grow up and forget the pot and focus on your child... i mean what if the baby finds the stash or when the child gets older what are you going to tell the child when they ask what it is...
@teenal (970)
• Ireland
7 Dec 06
Depends. Is it just every now and again or all the time. People who smoke regularly are not operating normally. Problems dont get dealt with and it builds up and causes paranoia. My son lost years of his life in a hash haze. Get him to stop now. Its also not good for a small child to be around physically or from a moral point of view.