Isa it easier to dump someone or to get dumped ?
4 Oct 06
easier to get dumped than dump. I find it easier to deal with sadness than guilt. To dump someone leaves me with issues about what I did and did I do the right thing. Getting dumped means it is out of my hands so all I have to do is get over the hurt or rejection.
• United Kingdom
25 Nov 06
I much rather get dumped, I think its the easiest way out! Then you have NO regrets. If you dump someone then you could have regrets afterwards and the problem of how to tell them, where to tell them and what reaction you will get from them, whether they will retaliate, hit back or even worse do themselves in. I've been in both situations in the past and EVERY time I've always coped better with being dumped. Sometimes when the relationship is not going the way I want it to and instead of dumping them I do bad things forcing them to dump me, sounds terrible I know, guess I'm a chicken!!!