What is the real secret of successful marriage?
By alienstar
@alienstar (5142)
India
December 8, 2006 4:50am CST
Loving someone and getting married to someone is easy and maintaing that love life is difficult...isn't it? now, what do you think is the secret of being happy and succeed in married life..! ...anyone here...please share it with all of us here....
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11 responses
@alienstar (5142)
• India
8 Dec 06
Yes...you are right to some extent as i would also like to add some more points which will add up to a successful married life....first of all without trust nothing can work out and ofcourse understanding between two people should be very good and last of all, they should love each other more and more in the passing days....don't you think that i am making some valid points here.....
Anyway's thank you for your response
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@ecpunzalan (401)
• Philippines
28 Dec 06
thats true, understanding if very important.. and yes you are making a point... (understanding is thinking also of your mate not just yourself)
@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
10 Dec 06
well i`m no expert and have only been married for 25yrs but for a marriage to work it has to be a partenership in all areas . there has to be lots of patience on both sides .the knowledge to know just when to bite your tongue and not say anything .Marriage is not a smooth journey by any means i know in mine there have been rough times and in knowing that things will get better gives me the need to hang in there .
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@prasad1961 (5597)
• India
16 Dec 06
I think marriage is different from married life. The entire discussion runs with the same confusion. I could not understand to follow and make a response.
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
10 Dec 06
25 years is a long time and congrats for that...!
you can definitely share many things with all of us here..isn't it?
As you said, married life is not smooth journey by any means and you will have to pass through many difficulties together...isn't it? more over, i think you need of lot of understanding,trust and faith .....isn't it?
Anyway's, thanks for responding
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
19 Dec 06
True love is neded definitely and what is that disagreements you have noted..it's confusing here...anyway's, i feel trust will play more important role to make anyone's marriage a successful one...don't you think so?
Thank you for responding
@TheApparition (337)
• India
9 Dec 06
I think it is important to learn to recognize and respect the each others freedom.
It is essential to understand that nobody by themselves are perfect, instead they only be perfect for each other, which is the result of understanding themselves and the others.
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
10 Dec 06
Well said....but, it's easier said than done isn't it? you got to struggle a lot and learn a lot from each others mistakes and understand each other better in each passing day....as you said, we have to get through all those trial and error methods..isn't it?
Anyway's, thanks for responding
@sanjivbiswas (334)
• India
10 Dec 06
I AM NOT MARRIED BUT STILL I FEEL THE GIRL SHOULD FIRST OF ALL SHOULDNT BE AFTER MONEY,AS MOST OF TODAYS GIRLS ARE.
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
10 Dec 06
Hm....That is the main thing you have noted out and really i alos feel that....as most of today's girls are after money and once you get married with a girl who is not after money and of your liking, then how do you make it a successful married life.....!
Anyway's, thanks for responding
@straight_n_fried (153)
• Canada
9 Dec 06
i dunno ima not married yet i'll tell in like 15yrs or so when i get married!!!! lmFao
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@alienstar (5142)
• India
10 Dec 06
ha...ha....15 years from now..!.....so, better not to take the head ache now..isn't it...cool then..enjoy life till you get married and strt pondering about this question later after fifteen yesrs..All the Best
Anyway's, thanks for responding
@angelface23 (2494)
• United States
8 Dec 06
I am not married but I feel like we are so I will take a stab at this. I think you have to be patient and kind and take turns. You have to have your partners back and hold each other in highest regards. you're a team so you have to do whatever it takes to keep the team together.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Dec 06
Yes...you have made some valid points here.To lead a successful married life, they should have highest respect to each other and as you said , they have to work as a team.
Getting maried is easy but to make ita success requires lot of hardworks, understanding between the two ...isn't it?
Anyway's, thanks for responding
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Dec 06
What do you mean by real love? do you think just real love is the secret of happy married life....? don't you think, undesranding is also very much important in successful married life and what about the trust and faith ....don't you think even these are important factors.....!
Anyway's thanks for responding
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Dec 06
Love should increase day by day ....i to agree with this.But, more than anything one should trust each other very much and respect each other and understand one's decisions, emotions, mistakes that do come every now and then...isn't it?
Anyway's, thanks for responding
@alienstar (5142)
• India
8 Dec 06
Can i know what real love is? do you think just real love is enough for a successful married life or do you need some more things to lead a happy married life.
Anyway's thank you for your response
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@liciagomes (453)
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28 Dec 06
The bond of marriage is sacred and depends on the foundation of total trust, unending love for each other and selflessness towards each other.
