Weird or not
By Meg2006
@Meg2006 (102)
Kenya
September 19, 2006 3:36am CST
Can someone tell me if this is normal for someone whose sexuality is straight..... I am a lady who stares at women butts and boobs and always comments on how good or bad they look.I just admire from a distance and have no intentions of touching. Am i really weird, normal or turning gay? I have a good body, feel sexy and my buddies confirm it but this obsession about ladies makes me feel shy. Can someone tell me if this is normal...
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63 responses
@Sidders (520)
• United States
10 Oct 06
I would say it is OK! Women are beautiful! We have beautiful curves all over. Men??? Well, some look good from the waist up. Like when they are tan and built! But not many of them look like that. Women are just beautiful naturally! And no... I am not bi or gay.
@clownfish (3272)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I usually think that when I see clothes I'd like to be able to wear, or would wear if I had the figure for them!
@tishabest (602)
• Belgium
20 Sep 06
The female body is a work of art and I find myself doing the same thing, so chalk it up to the beauty of nature!
@Deltaseccc (505)
• Namibia
27 Oct 06
Totally normal - woman are beautiful and you as a woman will be NOT normal if you do not look at others and admire/envy or compare yourself with them.
You look at everything else in the world - art, plants, houses and compliment or critisize, why ever not with the one thing that is closest to you - other woman.
@clownfish (3272)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I agree, I think it's totally normal, too. I always notice if another woman is wearing a very stylish outfit or fabulous shoes! LOL
@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
24 Sep 06
I think it is normal to notice beauty. Most people look and compare. Some women and men for that fact are just beautiful naturally and you can't help but to admire them for it. Some women just have that talent to know how to dress that is appealing and its great to be able to notice their style and blend it with our own styles.
I wouldn't worry about it unless you go way overboard.
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@maya_n_bennett (4687)
• United States
19 Sep 06
I see nothing wrong with it. I look at other females and check them out. Im 28 and have a body like little girl. I alway wanted to be tall and my height stop growing at 5 feet..... And my boobs, oh boy, wish it was little more bigger too. So I look at the females that looks good, I have to check them out because I admire them.
@Tamihall (88)
• United States
31 Oct 06
not weird at all. I always check out other women. I love boobs!
@hoobly_cushk (74)
• Canada
1 Nov 06
Nothing wrong with admiring the human body whether it is male or female. Now if one picks them apart to feel better about themselves that's another matter. But beauty is everywhere. Just because you admire a certain aspect about someone doesn't mean you're going to reach out and grab them!
@comradevic (230)
• Nigeria
19 Nov 06
It's weird! I think normal and logical attraction should be on intergender basis.
@sreelovessree1 (39)
• India
17 Dec 06
nothing wrong, i know a lady who get turned on seeing the boobs, but doesnt like to touch or feel it, she like the way it is shown. only condition is it should be big. and she too hope to get a big one. (she has a perfect one)
@akumei1269 (1749)
• India
27 Oct 06
I don't think yours is not straight sexuality . For straihgt ladies the only feeling seeing others' butts and boobs may be jealousy or appreciation and the the psychological secret behind this is the wish in her 'if I ahd such a beutiful...!, large..!etc.' .And in your case exactly that is happening . Otherwise, you could have aroused on seeing them .
@ZANILHYDER (329)
• India
27 Oct 06
i think it is still normal,
perhaps were were into audition for some kind of similar stuff and since then you wanted to be arecruiter and you have started the practice already.
@clownfish (3272)
• United States
31 Oct 06
I think it's just normal. We are curious about our bodies from a very young age. Maybe it's something we just never grow out of!
@ladylety (344)
• United States
31 Oct 06
Women are much more critical of ourselves and others and we tend to compare a lot. I don't see that as abnormal or wierd. I think we females just pay more attention to details and what someone is wearing and how fat/skinny/tall/short/pretty/tacky/big butt/small butt/long hair and so on!
@LindySparkles (399)
• El Salvador
31 Oct 06
I check out other girls bodies too. In an appreciative manner. I'm a married girl, totally in love with my husband. I don't feel its at all weird. I think pretty much all girls notice stuff like that and comment about it to their friends.
