BABY MAMMA DRAMA
June 15, 2006 5:16pm CST
MY HUSBAND TO BE EX IS A REAL B***H! MY MAN GETS TXTS FROM HER AT ALL HOURS NIGHT AskinG HIM TO MEET HER. WHEN DROPPING THEIR KIDS OFF SHE'LL SIT IN HER CAR AND HONK UNTIL HE GOES TO GET THE KIDS. SHE'S JUST VERY CHILD LIKE BUT I FEAR I'M LOWERING MYSELF TO HER LEVEL AT THE END OF MY ROPE!
• United States
24 Jun 06
It's sad, isn't it? You can't change her, but don't stoop to her level. The kids need a good, female role model and you are it! Your fiance and she will be involved until the kids turn 18, so you have to deal with it in a way that won't drive you crazy. Ignore the car honking. When he goes to get the kids from the car, wave at her and smile. Hug the kids when they arrive. (That will drive her crazy!) Never say anything negative about her to her or the kids. If they complain, just say, "Now, you know your Mom loves you very much." "Kill her with kindness" no matter how she responds. Your stepchildren will love you and so will your husband! If you can't act in this way, you should rethink marrying him.