I'll have to ask a co-worker that one. Someone I work with was doing the music for a lesbian wedding. I think it just depends on the couple though. I plan to have a very fun and semi non-traditional wedding. No idea what songs I'd pick.
I'll let you know. I'm not planning to get married anytime soon because it is not legal here yet. Only civil unions. :(
I want to play some classical music probably, or bluegrass. My girlfriend would probably go for rap.