Love or be love
By rebel_angel
@rebel_angel (60)
Singapore
December 10, 2006 9:25am CST
Have anyone of you ever consider this before, is it better to be love or to love someone. If there's a person who loves you more than his/her life, but you don't have that feeling for him/her...and you have a someone whom you love with all your heart (here, lets say he/her does not return the same feelings to you)...so what would be your choice?
To be love is a woderful feeling...you don't have to worry about anything because you know that there would always be that somebody around you who would give anything to make you happy, who will even sacrifies him/herself to protect you...however...loving somebody is a totally different feeling...you would be that somebody to give up everything in hope that he/her would be happpy...
To be love, you would only be recieving, you don't need to give, you would be so free and happy...but to love, you would be giving your everything and may not even recieve...it's a tortue...
Despite all this, i believe that if i were to be in such a situation...i would love than to be love...even though, i am going to get myself through a lot of heartaches and tortue...i still think that to give is better than to recieve and when you see the someone that you care so much about smile, you would feel very happy too...
So what do you all think, i would love to hear your views...
68 responses
@rurita (212)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 06
i dont like love or to be love.
i like love and to be love.
maybe if i have to choose, i prefer to be love, but how is your feeling if somebody love you but you don't love him, he come around in your live every day, do you ever feel boring with what he doing to you?
@BlueSandShinobi (44)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
I think it should have both... It's not quite fair... The ones who love desereved to be love and vise versa... That's how I think love works...^_^
@yarntales (639)
• United States
11 Dec 06
This is too funny. I was thinking about this yesterday and was thinking of starting a discussion on it.
I don't know which is better though.
I have someone in my life that I love, but he only acts mean to me (my husband).
@mcbota (2125)
• Romania
11 Dec 06
Most of the person are waiting to be loved first and after this they will love too so for this reason are not too many who likes to love first.I Like to say that I love first and afgter this I am waiting to be loved ,but soemtimes what I say is not neccesary so good as I act!
@kunalgaurr (536)
• India
11 Dec 06
For me I would like to be loved from someone... you feel very good when there is a person who care for you, luv you and ready to do anything for you.... It is very difficult when you luv someone and in return you do not get anything. and you come to know that he doesn't luv you....you feel hurt.. it is very painful...
@epizzahut (2078)
• China
11 Dec 06
I choice: first loving each other:second being loved; the last being single. i couldn't love a girl who don't love me.
@mtrclaudiu (46)
• Romania
11 Dec 06
after you write that what i can tell you?i'm agree with you and i'm glad to love and be loved.
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
11 Dec 06
loving someone is great and to be loved by someone is also a good feeling. but the greatest feeling is the reciprocation of your love. nothing can match that feeling. acknowledgement of love is a nice feeling and to know that the person loved you doesnt do it anymore is disheartening.
@monu9829777982 (96)
• India
11 Dec 06
To be loved is more nice then to love someone, even to love some one is also interesting and amazing but if you love her/him and she/he doesn't responds or love you then its all foolish to being in love. But if someone loves you then you must think about her/him and you can plan for your future with her.
