Can you go into the bathroom without being bothered?

@brokentia (10389)
United States
December 11, 2006 10:10am CST
I seem to be an electronic magnet to the point of walking through the bathroom door flips the switch to on! I will get constant traffic coming. Someone knocks asking to come in, my 5 year old just barges in on me, if I lock the door I get a little hand coming through the crack at the bottom of the door or asked what I am doing, and I even get a paw or two scratching at the door wanting to be let in! Do you have anyone bothering you when you go ino the bathroom? Who?
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@imadriscoll (2228)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Oh my goodness, do I ever! Our house is in the midst of a 4-1/2 year remodeling project (it was supposed to be done in 3 months) and to make a really long story short ... Our master bathroom is the only bathroom that we use right now and it does't have a lock on the door. It also doesn't have trim around the door which allows toddlers to peak in and ask what I'm doing when I'm on the potty. I also get asked quite frequently, "You pooping, Mama?" From time to time I'll have a baby sneak in and pull himself up on the toilet and even put his frosty little hand on my bare hip ... that's enough to make you shoot off the toilet!
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
11 Dec 06
hahahahahahaha I get those questions too. And I have had frosty hands touch me when they were little too. Makes you just want to say, nevermind...I'll hold it until you nap. LOL
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@medooley (1873)
• United States
12 Dec 06
A four and a half year remodeling, that is crazy! This is a great post, expecially the part about them peeking in... that is classic.
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@sylviekitty (2083)
• United States
20 Jan 07
OMG. My kids seem to know when I am in there, from miles away. I turn on the water to take a shower, and my 3 yr old runs up the stairs from watching a movie.. he says "OH! Mommy taking a shower!" Then my daughter (who is 4 1/2) always knocks on the door and says she has to go potty. She also seems to have to go every time I say that I have to go. What the heck?!
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@brokentia (10389)
• United States
24 Jan 07
My son does the same thing. As soon as the water is turned on, he comes a running! He seems to think that if someone is taking a shower or bath, he should be allowed in. And if you refuse him, the only way to appease him is by telling him that he can take a bath or shower next. Then he is sitting there waiting for you to get out so he can get in! Well...at least he doesn't have a problem taking a bath! :)
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• United States
24 Jan 07
I don't now, as I am older. But when I was young, I was in the same delema as you. Did you notice when you get on the phone, the same thing happens. I guess the family just wants the security of your presents.
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
11 Dec 06
oh my...LOL for the LONGEST time my goin to the bathroom was a task and a half....these days though everyone knows that when I'm in there LEAVE ME ALONE LOL it took some doing to get them to grasp it mind you but they arent too bad now LOL
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• Canada
11 Dec 06
I have a 2 year old at home so of course not. He takes pleasure in waiting until someone goes to the bathroom and to come in and either flush constantly or try to wipe everyone. I am not kidding lol it is not always funny as you would imagine.
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• United States
11 Dec 06
If it's not my S/O following me in, it's my cat Charlie sitting on my lap! Privacy is a 4-letter word!
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
11 Dec 06
I just got the visual...boy walks in...Mom: Don't you touch that handle!! Boy: (flush) wipe? oh my goodness!!! that is so funny!
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@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Privacy in the bathroom? Please we have too many cats for that. They seem to take turns for wanting love when ever someone sits on the toilet. They will push the door open on you and then come in and bug you till you pet them. I gave up on being alone in there.
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@brokentia (10389)
• United States
11 Dec 06
I had a cat that did that. Just what I wanted, a kitty rubbing up against my legs when I try to pee! LOL
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• United States
11 Dec 06
Reason number 634 for not having cats ... they think they need love when you need to relieve yourself.
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@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Tell me about it. Although some of them can be very lovig at that time. Still not what I want to deal with usually. Of course a couple of our cats have slept in the sink in there.
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• United States
20 Jan 07
As soon as walk into the bathroom not 2 seconds later here comes the troop! And my daughter always wants to have these serious conversations as Im sitting on the toilet or in the middle of a shower! My cat thinks it is her personal time with me and my 2 year old wants to HELP me go to the bathroom lol I always say can I please pee in pease and they laugh at me! and say yeah right mom!
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
11 Dec 06
My 2yr old Amanda - my last baby.  Love her so much
All.....the.....time. LOL Our litter box is in the bothroom and If I dont latch the door one or both of the cats will be pocking a paw in to get my attention. My 2 yr old will just open and walk in and leave the door wide open. After school my other 2 HAVE to show me there school work while I am on the potty, they cant wait till I am done. I guess that is the point. No matter rwhat mommy does not even get a minute to go pee.
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• United States
11 Dec 06
My grandson has to visit me everytime I go to the bathroom. He knows where I am, but will trot down the hall and open the door and start talking. Then he will turn his back and say, sorry Oma, but I just wanted to say hi. If it is not my grandson checking in on me, it is the cat. Itty will pounce on the door and come sit at my feet. I thought that once the kids moved out that I would have more privacy in the potty. Guess I was mistaken!
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@brokentia (10389)
• United States
11 Dec 06
hahahahahahaha My 5 yr old will do that! He just walks on and goes OH! And then turns his back to me and continues to talk! LOL Glad to know I am not the only one. :)
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• United States
11 Dec 06
We are never alone!!!!
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@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
13 Dec 06
That happens to me all the time too. Our cat likes to use the bathroom when someone else is there and my daughter won't let me do anything unless I take her with me. So I just leave the bathroom door open when I'm in there, so that anyone that wants to come in, can.
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• Canada
11 Dec 06
I have the same problem. With 2 daughters, a boyfriend and lots of friends of my daughters, there is always someone wanting the bathroom. I was home alone on the weekend and the dog didn't want to be left alone apparently and scratched to get in. My mother always warned me about it!
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@medooley (1873)
• United States
11 Dec 06
ha ha, I don't really have a problem with it yet, it does come up though. We only have one bathroom in the house, so there have been instances where I will be in there, and our boy comes and knocks on the door. "Dad I have to go to the bathroom." "Can it wait?" "I have to go poop." "Okay hang on." Ah kids... I wish the boy would learn that he can go before he reaches the breaking point. But he waits until the last minute before he goes.
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@brokentia (10389)
• United States
11 Dec 06
We have 3 bathrooms and I still have to go through it too! It gets to the point I have to tell one child to use the bathroom downstairs, another to use the one in the hall, and the last I am telling I will be right out. What is it about them all needing to use the potty at the same time? And the one that has to either go up or down the stairs over-reacts as if he/she will not make it. LOL
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• United States
11 Dec 06
Why is it that they don't realize that they have to go until someone else is already going? Then you have to make that split second decision ... can I stop? Can they wait? Is this going to result in a huge disgusting mess for all involved? Who's going to clean it up? Endless possibilities ...
• India
24 Jan 07
The story is same everywhere . My children have a preference to the bath rooms that is attched to our bed room and though they are old enough not to disturb me,never forget to makes enough noise outside to irritate you and make you come out.
@patootie (3592)
20 Jan 07
When I had my cats I had to leave the door open or there would be a little scrit, scratching at the door and the most pathetic sounding little miaow .. Sadly I no longer have the cats to think about ,, so I am completely on my own .. but I am so used to having to leave the door open a little that I still do it .. how daft is that .. but it just doesn't feel right to have the door fully closed hahaha!!
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@ronita34 (3922)
• Canada
24 Jan 07
Yes!!!! It seems like everytime i go to the bathroom i get bothered! Most of the time it always seems to be my 5 tear old niece saying that she needs to pee as soon as i sit down...LOL! If it isn't her than it is my 2 year od banging on the door! I feel you!!
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• India
20 Jan 07
Ya sure, no1 bothers me once i am there.. hehe
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@rainbow (6761)
12 Dec 06
ha-ha lol happens in my home too. I go to the bathroom I have a seven year old, a 3 year old and a dog follow me and wander in. Sometimes my partner will even do it and occasionally the cat. I rarely get to pee in peace lol. I push them out and shut the door - sometimes it works but they don't go away. Occasionally I have a bit of a paddy at them if they do it when I'm in the shower and then the parade waits in my bedroom for me. You have to remember they do it because you are the leader of their pack and they love you even tho' it's really annoying.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Leader of the pack, ha ha. That is a great way to look at it! Thank you for sharing. :) I don't always get annoyed. I often enjoy the company when I am in the shower and they are talking to me about school or work. But there are others times that I would like some privacy. LOL Again, thank you for sharing your wonderful point of view.
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• United States
11 Dec 06
No not really. I don't have any kids yet. Once and a great while my husband will walk in to get something but not too often
• United States
11 Dec 06
No I have my own apt so I dont ever have to worry about that.
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
11 Dec 06
same here but if I had someone who kept coming in i would do the same or frighten them with with my ghostly laugh lol
@lissaj (532)
• United States
12 Dec 06
People GET to go to the bathroom alone??? Where?? I have that problem too. Every single time I go in there, for anything, my kids have to go potty, or they want to brush their teeth, or they want to know what I am doing, or they just stand in the doorway. Forget locking the door lol. They just keep knocking, very softly, until I answer them. I think we gave up bathroom privacy when we had kids :)
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
12 Dec 06
ha ha But yours knock lightly until you answer? Wow! My youngest will knock lightly and then to begin to get louder if I try to ignore him. And if that doesn't work, he will tell me that he knows I am in there! LOL
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@Devinarun (387)
• United States
11 Dec 06
its seems from your discussion taht you are the most importantb person in your house maybe that is why you feel that.in my case no one disturbs me while at the bathroom.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Your very right. I could look at it as if I am thought as the most important person. But I am also the one that is ALWAYS here. You would think that they would follow their dad because they don't see him as often.
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@Argonaut (260)
• United States
12 Dec 06
We have three bathrooms, and still everyone has to try to use the one that I happen to be in! To add to that, the dog has to wait outsied the as if I'm never coming back, and if i'm in the masterbath the friggin cats are whining and moaning outside like I'm doing something wrong in there.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Is the litterbox in the master bath? Maybe they think you are going to use it. LOL
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@smacksman (6053)
11 Dec 06
Never a problem in our house. Nobody bothers to close the door most of the time let alone lock it!
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
11 Dec 06
It was like tht when I was a teen living with my mother too. Nobody had a problem with wanting privacy. But my mother had two girls. I, however, have 3 girls and 4 boys. I don't want the boys to follow me to the pee room.
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@smacksman (6053)
11 Dec 06
What a lovely big family. I envy you!