It is better to confess the own girl to have betrayed her or to be quiet?

@whitefox (1347)
Italy
December 11, 2006 3:28pm CST
Tell me your opinion or experience
5 responses
@susanscs (268)
• Spain
15 Dec 06
Why did you betray her in the first place? A good relationship depends on truth.
@whitefox (1347)
• Italy
15 Dec 06
Truth is important, I'm agree with you, but the temptations are a lot.
@Niceboy (776)
• Italy
15 Dec 06
I think it depends in love! If you love her I think you must confess it! But I think that it's a great risk to break out :(
@whitefox (1347)
• Italy
15 Dec 06
Your response is very precise: the risk to break out is very great.
@lumanci (1111)
• Italy
12 Dec 06
if a person loves itself not there is need to betray. Therefore having betrayed need does not exist to confess null
@whitefox (1347)
• Italy
12 Dec 06
Thanks for your response.
@shmeedia (1045)
• Canada
11 Dec 06
what does this even mean!?!?! sorry but it's unclear. do you mean if you betrayed your girlfriend, should you confess your mistake or keep it quiet? my opinion, confess. in the end she could find out anyway, then both of you will be angry with each other. with confessing, she will be angry first and then maybe think about the fact that you were courageous and honest enough to tell her.
@whitefox (1347)
• Italy
12 Dec 06
You have understood what I want to say perfectly. I agree with you: im my opinion is better that a man confess to her girlfriend/wife that he betrayed her. Thanks.
• United States
11 Dec 06
In the 12 steps used by many addicts, there is a step called making amends. This step is good advise for everyone. It says to make amends to those you have harmed unless doing so would cause more harm. So is this confession for you or for her? Will confessing hurt her or will it help her understand and come to terms with the event? Amends I think are mostly for those who know that the actions of another has harmed them...apologizing helps both the one who was hurt and the one who did the hurting.
@whitefox (1347)
• Italy
12 Dec 06
Yhans fro your opinion. I wanted to say if is better that a man confess to her girlfriend/wife that he betrayed her or no.