It is better to confess the own girl to have betrayed her or to be quiet?
December 11, 2006 3:28pm CST
Tell me your opinion or experience
11 Dec 06
what does this even mean!?!?! sorry but it's unclear. do you mean if you betrayed your girlfriend, should you confess your mistake or keep it quiet? my opinion, confess. in the end she could find out anyway, then both of you will be angry with each other. with confessing, she will be angry first and then maybe think about the fact that you were courageous and honest enough to tell her.
• United States
11 Dec 06
In the 12 steps used by many addicts, there is a step called making amends. This step is good advise for everyone. It says to make amends to those you have harmed unless doing so would cause more harm. So is this confession for you or for her? Will confessing hurt her or will it help her understand and come to terms with the event? Amends I think are mostly for those who know that the actions of another has harmed them...apologizing helps both the one who was hurt and the one who did the hurting.