please give me the suggession to my love problem?
December 12, 2006 4:57am CST
i am loving one person from childhood on wards.he is my relative. i love him alot.but he is not interest at me. he is talking casually with me but not with love. i asked him i love you very much. what's your opinion on me?but he told me i am seeing you as friend but i cant see you as wife and simply said sorry. but i cant forget him. my friend proposed me. he is a very good person. i like him very much.but not loving him. then what should i do now? now i am doing job. he is also doing job as a software engineer. he meets me dialy and talks with me. keeping me happy. please give me one suggession shall i accept him or not? he is waiting for my reply.
12 Dec 06
theoritically, it's actually very simple. forget your relative and marry the person who loves you. no issues about it. u can't make someone love you and it's very clear that the person never loved you. it's all your false aspiration to hope that he might oneday fall for you. i can't see any wrong with him, he actually had his facts straight, u r one who didnot want to understand. now, as for the second person, it's obvious that he will keep you well. i hope he is into good job and would prove to be a good groom. it's very important to be with the person who loves you than to be someone whom u love in vain. trust me you would be happy with the one who loves you. having said this, it's easy to say, but trust me you gonna love him sooner or later. how can you not love someone who cares the world for u!!. so, give a little time, let go for a while and take it easy. things are right infront of you in aplatter, go get it, now. else u might lose it to someone. all the best
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13 Dec 06
I actually agree with this statement. It's easier to fall in love with someone who already loves you then it is to try to make someone love you back. It never happens. Been there done that. I loved someone who didn't love me. And I'm soon to be married to someone I fell in love with who Loves me back
16 Dec 06
yeah i agree with you..!!! i think thsts the best thing to do... your too young, and i know theres someone waiting for you... maybe not tomorrow or the other day..but he will come at the right time...and your going to love him for sure...!!! you can teach your heart to love..!!! i garantee you that..!!!
12 Dec 06
we actually have the same problem.... i think the best to do is accept whatever he wants..!!! you cannot force him to love you.. love will come on your way...maybe he's not d person for you, God will give you the best man and will accept you for who and what you are..!!God Bless!!
12 Dec 06
the person you love already told you that he can't love you back and can't see you more than a friend. i guess this should be your basis so you can move on to a better person who loves you and is willing to accept you. you should not mingle unto the person who will never give his love to you this is simply a waste of time.
13 Dec 06
Don't waste your time on the person who has expressed to you clearly that he cannot reciprocate your love. However, I don't think you should force yourself to love this friend just because he loves you. Love should be mutual and I believe you have not found the one that is right for you yet. Keep yourself happy by occupying yourself with things you like to do and spending more time with friends, family and colleagues. Your Prince Charming will appear when you least expected it.
13 Dec 06
i think the best thing to do would be to wait for sometime for your love to consider you as more then a friends, when you face such a situation where whom you thought wasyour friend turned out to be loving you as well,it takes sometime to think over. but i think you should be happier with the one who loves you and not with the one you love.