Do girls notice guys checking them out?

@Chapman15 (1503)
United States
December 14, 2006 12:52am CST
I was in Vegas with some friends a few weeks ago, and I was walking with a girl that is really hot... She is a good friend of mine and I asked her if she noticed all the guys checking her out while we were walking through the Bellagio.. She didn't, so the next time we walked somewhere I counted 68 guys atleast, that glanced/turned their head her way for a few seconds just on the way to our room (approximately 8-12 minutes of walking)... Some were obvious and some were subtle, but can any girl not notice all the male attention heading their way? Or are these hot chicks oblivious to it because it's always been that way?
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@hemesh (214)
• India
15 Dec 06
I think that men are always the desperate ones.
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
17 Dec 06
You must be a hot girl or you'd never say something like that!
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
Not at all times. Sometimes my radars for such is pretty out of range, so I really don't notice if I someone were giving me eye. Then there are those rather conspicuous ones (like some guy licking or biting his lips when your right in front of them) that just makes me want to skewer his eyes out.Aaaarrgh!
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Note to self: Stop licking chops around women!
• Singapore
14 Dec 06
belive me, most women will know when men checked them out...someway or the other, there's a special instict...but if my bf/guy friend ask me whether i notice,.....of course i will tell them no...LOL to make them know that i dont really care...but i KNOW! i'm not saying that i'm hot...just sharing based on experience.
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
14 Dec 06
Hmmm, interesting so your saying that women lie! Noway! So, how do you use your instinct, is it the corner of your eye... Or do you just feel the eyes on you?
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
yeah girls definitely notice guys checking us out. why do you guys think we spend so much time looking at mirror and spending so much money on outfits that make us look cute... its cos WE KNOW guys will ALWAYS check us out!
@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
That's a good point they do always want to look cute, and girls clothes are ridiculously expensive... So they must be buying it for the guys!?! No, they have to be buying it to impress some of their friends too, right?
@nuttmeg (441)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Yeah, it's kind of hard not to notice, I think lol. Either you see them do it, perhaps just out of the corner of your eye, hear them comment, or sense the eyes on you, maybe because women are just naturally intuitive. My guess is that your friend probably noticed most of it, but does the natural thing of acting nonchalant or was just tuning it out. I think it's just something we get used to, really, and we hardly give it a second thought...or we're grinning about it on the inside, and damn if we're going to let you see it lol. Besides, that just helps us maintain our female mystique :P
@nuttmeg (441)
• United States
9 Jan 07
PS - that's not saying I'm hot, I just think that's how most women think, whether they're "hot" or not.
@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
9 Jan 07
Don't be modest, it's the internet! And yes, I now believe she noticed based on the answers I got or maybe she should just dye her hair blonde!
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• United States
14 Dec 06
Most females notice the attention, they just downplay it for vanity purposes.
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Vanity purposes? Does that mean they don't want to act conceeded?
• United States
16 Dec 06
Sometimes it does. Either that or they are just really self conscious. Sometimes in the case of being real conceited, they are just used to it.
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• United States
15 Dec 06
well i truly think sometiems they actually catch guys checking them out but for me its a good thing lol if the girls arent smart enough then they dont catch them and if there back is turned ^_^ but yea other then that i think its kinda funny when i guy feels stupid for checking a girl out i mean come one were only human also ladies its not our fualt ou are truly atractive but thats besides the point but yea some dont even know its going on b/c they are just used to it just like the "preps" in my school they are used to it so idk they are good looking tho just b/c they are good looking doesnt mean all the guys drool over them so if like a girl that doesnt ever get looked at like that does get looked at like that i htink they do notice b/c its out of the ordinary but when i get caught i like it lol b/c usually it leads to us flirting lol ^_^
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
very true, I think that the "average" looking ones sill tend to notice it a bit more! If it's normal for a hot girl then it's just part of her everyday existence...
• United States
15 Dec 06
I notice it sometimes but not all the time. My finace laughs at it because apparently as he says "guys are always drooling over me". It's funny. It's a compliment but sometimes guys are a little rude with how they act or how they approach women. There's a wide variety of men out there and their pick ups are all different too!
@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Yeah, I'll have to admit there are quit a few guys that piss me off too!
@MaddisMom (144)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I did when I was younger. I think I put out a "leave me the hell alone" vibe now. COntrary to what men think, it does not make women happy when you openly check them out and act all piggish. It makes a decent woman feel angry and a bit unclean.
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Really, they don't like it at all? I thought that's why they always got all dolled up! Maybe, women should stop sending so many mixed signals!
@CrazyP (947)
• Canada
15 Dec 06
yes they do i have seen some girls in my school hit guys with books and stuff because they are rude about it its very sad or thats what i think but they all love me
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Ouch! Why do they hit them with books... That would screw with my confidence!
• United States
15 Dec 06
Yes, but men you have to make the first move or us women will not do anything.
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Okay so here's my follw up question... Is a smile from the woman, an invitation?
• United States
15 Dec 06
I don't notice.. maybe it's because I don't care. I wear what I want.. I wear my hair any way I like.. I'm definitely NOT a hotchick.. So maybe they're not looking at all? LOL... doesn't matter I'm happily engaged!
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Good for you! Screw the dumb sh**! Good luck with the wedding!
@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
14 Dec 06
Yes girls do notice guys checking them out... cause whenever my girlfriend gets back home. shez telling me the same old story. I went to the street and a guy started following me. then at that shop, at that road, at that turn a guy kept on staring me n bla bla.... so girls do notice alot to see whether they've got the charm to attract guys by their looks or not. lol responding the guys in a positive manner is something else. but its true that girls do notice!
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I knew it! But why wouldn't she admit it to me!
@mfrancq (1809)
• United States
14 Dec 06
I always told my husband that no one ever checked me out. However, he made a point one day to show me every single time a guy checked me out and I couldn't believe it. Had I really been that blind this whole time. All this time I thought no one found me attractive and there it was. It helped me get past some of my self consciousness.
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I know that even if I check out a girl it doesn't mean everything... Sometimes I'lll focus on a body part or feature of the certain girl... I guess I'll have to keep doing to to boost yours and others self esteem lol!
14 Dec 06
It depends what my focus is. My best friend have said the lad that walked past, the lad where we've ate or whatever has checked me out and when I've been in mind conversation with her, I obviously fail to notice. I don't always know when people check me out but I do notice it sometimes. I normally just shrug it off though as I'm in a happy relationship.
@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I'm sorry to say that even when I'm in a relationship that I still have the habbit of looking at other women... It's male nature i guess... And window shopping never hurts, because your never really trying to buy right?
@dip_cool (411)
• India
14 Dec 06
well im sure girls do notice.i mean you will see they also give a small peek through the corner of their eyes.lol.
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Yeah, when that happens it's sweet... If they look twoice that's an open invitation to go for the approach!
• United States
14 Dec 06
I feel like not only do women notice that they are being "checked out," but they thrive on it. Society has bred the notion into women that they must look good no matter what, and that it is ok for guys to check them out. At the same time that I say this, I also admit that as a male I'm constantly checking women out, and not always so subtly. It's instinct, afterall.
@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Oh yes, I fully agree... I check them out too, and some are worth a full turn... I think that is the ultimate tell that every girls should be able to pick up on!
@atticus (1381)
• Italy
14 Dec 06
ahahah,she was crerly makin fun of you,they know that very good,are addicted to sights since when they are young,very young..:)..
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Naw, she's never been the observant type... But then again, she really isn't the modest type either...
• United States
14 Dec 06
Sure we do, whether we choose to respond to such notices is another thing
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
So, if it's a hot dude you'll smile back or something like that?
@Idlewild (6105)
• United States
14 Dec 06
I think women do notice, even when you don't see them glancing the guy's way or anything. They seem to have a sixth sense or something for knowing when someone looks at them, even when they don't give any indication that they've noticed.
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@Chapman15 (1503)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I agree the 6th sense of eyes oogling over their body... I think they purposely try to tease, which is fine because I don't mind window shopping!
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
hehe i think the girl knows. she 's a head turner i suppose.
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