I need some advice.

Drive up to your sisters house and bring her home with you!!

What does your sister want does she want out of the relationship or does she want to stay. If she wants out maybe your mom and you can help her to get away. Sound like he is jealous of your sisters little girl that can't be good.

advise her to move back home

Take her away from that guy. He's not mentally stable. That kind of relationship could never get better, only worse. It's already bad enough that your sister is experiencing that. But there are kids involved. Kids can get easily traumatized. Don't let her kids be scarred for the rest of their lives.

I assume that your sister is old enough to make her own decisions. So unfortunately there might not be anything that you can do except let her know that you're there for her. Even though she can't call you, you can still call her. I would call as often as possible to make sure that she's alright and isn't looking for a way out. If you think the situation could get violent I would work on an escape plan with her. Decide where she could go that is nearby, make a plan to find her there. Perhaps you need to open a bank account for her that her boyfriend knows nothing about. Find a hotline number for domestically abused women (these are usually toll free calls) so that she can get the help that she needs. And pray that God will protect her.

yes it is bad for the boy to leave her alone after enjoying her.he should be punished.

Well i must admit that she did a haste job in choosing the person and that too relying on someone from net but whats done is done, she should be clear to him and she should tell him that its their baby so its better that he accepts it right And if he doesnt she has the law with her

Well no 1, if your sister wants to stay with him, there is nothing you can do. If she does want to leave there is always a way to accomplish that.

Tell her what you feel... Sometimes who is standing outside a relation could help a lot... However a think you should stop right there, do not interfer with their life cause things could go bad for you. Sometimes we try to help but we are misunderstood. Speak with your sister, tell her what you think and help her understand the situation

actually it primarily depends on what your sister wants. counselling for both is a good solution. it will get to the genisis of the problem.

This guy sounds like one of those jealous guys that thinks that one person makes his life great or not so great. Your sister needs to wake up and get out of this relationship, but you are in a difficult position because if you push her too hard, she may push you away. I would think about bringing up little things that he does to her all of the time (like accusing her of cheating on him) and let her think about how he is really demanding and doesn't seem to respect her. Don't get into an argument about it, just get her to thinking. Talk to her about how he is jealous of her spending time with her daughter instead of him. The important thing is to get her to come to the conclusion that this guy is no good for her.

Get your sister out of there as soon as possible, if you can. That is not great relation four her.

your point is not clear - you do not say if ur sister is married legally to this guy, because in a living-in relationship, no police intervention or any counselling is valid. only if ur sister is wedded to this guy, he is accountable. moreover, your sis is living in his house and in case she is not married to him, he can always dump her any day. in case she is married, yes, she can go to police and complain that he is ill treating her by discriminating her. with sketchy details, it is unfair to pass any comments nor to give you solid advice. so take the help of a counsellor, that is the best course of action now.

Sounds like a bad situation from the get go. If it were me, I would be moving back home. First of all, If this started as soon as they moved in together, it can only get worse. Hopefully it has not become a violent relationship yet. Second, that is not a good situation for her daughter to grow up in and not to mention the one one the way. Good luck

Yikes, sounds like red flags all over the place. Can you invite your sister to visit for the holidays? Include the guy, that way he won't feel angry or left out. Stay close to your sister. You don't say how she feels about this. Its a touchy situation, if the father of her preborn baby feels threatened by you, he will isolate her further. Get to know him. It's a bad situation for your neice and everyone. Stay close to your sister, open your home to her. Talk to her about your concerns, but do it in private. Don't verbally attack him to her, but let her know you love her and are concerned. Keep communication open, be prepared for the worst, pray for the best.

yes,you can also play with her daughter to close her

I would definately get your sister out of there as quickly as possible. I agree with other comments that he will most likey progress to physically abusive behavior, not only towards your sister but her child as well. sometimes men prey on women who have young children- for a purpose. I would be very afraid for them. Do your best to get that man out of her life.

its really a bad news.though i am a boy but i still say that the guy about whom are you talking have not done a good job.he should accompany her in his time of danger(pregnancy).

i think your sister should not have trusted the boy soo soon. its ridiculous to befriend someone online without even having adequate infor mation.

ok ummm i would really love to help but how can i help if you're not asking a question you're just making a statement. . . . . So whenever you ready to ask a question i guess we'll be here to answer.