Would you want to be placed in a nursing home when you're old?

grandma - grandma
Philippines
December 15, 2006 9:06am CST
I often wonder what is so bad about being in a nursing home with the posts I've been reading they don't want to be in one. Tell me your experiences, ideas and perceptions or someone you knew. Is it really that bad?
5 responses
@gscs1838 (1536)
• Malaysia
15 Dec 06
i will never put my mom in a nursing home. she took care of me when i couldn't take care of myself (when i was a baby) and i will do the same for her. i hope that my children (if i ever have any) will feel the same way.
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
That was nice and thoughtful of you. I admire you for your principle. Good luck and all the best to you!!!
@snowflake5 (1579)
• United States
15 Dec 06
There have been problems with nursing home staff being cruel to vulnerable old people. Ultimately the only people who care enough to be kind to you in your old age are your own family. My advice, try to stay hale and hearty and look after your health and try to go through old age outside of a nursing home.
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• Philippines
15 Dec 06
That really is a problem. I wouldn't want to be maltreated when I grow old. And I agree that family is your good solace in old age. However, I don'twant to be a burden either. It is difficult to stay healthy nowadays, don't you think so?
• United States
15 Dec 06
i dont want to be but i dont have anybody to take care of me so i might not have a choice
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• Philippines
15 Dec 06
I got your point there. Tell me why wouldn't you want to anyway?
• United States
16 Dec 06
I'd hate it. But I bet I won't get the choice. I'm sure I'd have pets, and I would be upset if I couldn't take them. I can't imagine. I don't have any kids yet, so as of now I'd be on my own.
• Canada
16 Dec 06
grandma - grandma
I have some friends who worked in a nursing house before and she told me that even though there are nursers take care of those old people, but because the lack of nursers, old people are not been treated very well. when I get old, I would not move to a nursing house