A Sad Day for My Cousin Tiva.

United States
December 15, 2006 2:32pm CST
My cousin, Tiva just sent me an email to let me know that her birthday was not the happiest day for her. I doubt that it will ever be one of happiness ever again. Her 21 year-old daughter, Elizibeth died yesterday, on her mother's birthday.
1 person likes this
13 responses
• United States
21 Dec 06
Oh my Gosh! That is terrible! I am so sorry. It is bad enough to lose a child, but on your birthday? How sad is that?
1 person likes this
• United States
30 Dec 06
I spoke to Tiva at Christmas. She sounds bewildered still. She feels that Elizibeth is still there in a spiritual sense.
@kids91911 (4366)
• United States
17 Dec 06
I am sorry to hear that.
1 person likes this
• United States
18 Dec 06
Thank you.
@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
17 Dec 06
I'm sorry to hear that. I'm sorry for her loss.
1 person likes this
• United States
18 Dec 06
Thank you Lydia.
@brendalee (6083)
• United States
16 Dec 06
I am so sorry for your family's loss. Thats got to be very hard on her and you too. My thoughts will be with you and your family. Hugs.
1 person likes this
• United States
16 Dec 06
Thank you Brenda. I am trying to hold it together. Even though I haven't seen Elizibeth in years, we maintained contact. I will miss her dearly.
@brokentia (10396)
• United States
16 Dec 06
Awww, honey! I am so sorry! My deepest sympathies, healing energies, and love is being sent to you and your family! I dread ever loosing any of my children. And the fact that I have seven just increases my odds. I am sure it will take much time to heal. I wish you all the best in your time of sorrow.
1 person likes this
• United States
18 Dec 06
Thank you Tia.
• United States
15 Dec 06
thats terrible..my heart goes out to your family
1 person likes this
• United States
16 Dec 06
Thank you.
@mistypq (673)
15 Dec 06
So terrible, god be with you all at this very difficult time. Think of all the good times and things that made her laugh it will help a little. god bless.
• United States
18 Dec 06
Your words are comforting to me. Thank you.
@LovingIt (5398)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Oh how sad and what an awful tragedity! It's awful enough to lose a 21 year old daughter without it happening on her birthday. Prayers going out for your cousin.
• United States
16 Dec 06
Thank you, she will need many prayers to get her through this.
@flowerchilde (12518)
• United States
15 Dec 06
Oh, that is awful! So sorry to hear that!! prayers for her...
1 person likes this
• United States
16 Dec 06
Thank you.
• United States
15 Dec 06
=( How sad, my thoughts are with you and your family.
1 person likes this
• United States
16 Dec 06
Thank you.
@caramello (4381)
• Australia
15 Dec 06
That is very sad ElusiveButterfly, the loss of one of your own children is the saddest thing a parent has to face, and on a special day makes it even more traumatic!
• United States
16 Dec 06
Tiva called her yesterday and got her voice mail. She jokingly asked her where she was and where her birthday present was. I wish we lived closer so I could be with her at this difficult time.
@caramello (4381)
• Australia
16 Dec 06
So it was unexpected, and it happened suddenly?
1 person likes this
• United States
16 Dec 06
Yes.. They are performing an autopsy to determine what happened.
• United States
16 Dec 06
((((many hugs and prayers for your family))))
• United States
18 Dec 06
Thank you for your thoughts.
@BittyBiddy (2904)
• Ireland
30 Dec 06
Sorry to hear your sad news ElusiveButterfly. I couldn't read and not say anything. Hope you're ok.