Friend's husband

Philippines
December 15, 2006 11:27pm CST
I have this friend whom I think is in danger. She married a person whom I knew but he pretends he doesn't recognize me. But I have confirmed that he really is the person I knew before who have married, impregnated and left 3 women from different places in our country and my friend is the 4th victim. And the last update I knew is that he suggested to her to remove their marriage registration from the authority for the inheritance he is waiting to receive. How should I tell this friend about it? It seems that she is very much in love with the guy and won't easily believe whatever I will tell her.
2 responses
• United States
16 Dec 06
I would tell her what you know, but don't press the situation if she is your friend. She is going to do what she wants to do, but if she finds out later that you knew all along and didn't tell her she will be upset too. Just let her know your suspicion and let her make a decision as to what she wants to do.
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
Thanks for the advise. I have already given her an idea of the person I knew compared to her husband and how similar they are. I think she's trying to do some homework too because I learned that she got the names and addresses of the other girls he had before her. I hope that she can manage the pain and hurt it may cause her. I just don't like her to be miserable in the end.
@bizgeek (517)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
i think you tell the plain truth no sugar coating! she will thank you later for that
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
I would like to do that but I'm afraid if she won't believe me and we lost our friendship.