Women and Tears (please read it..)
December 16, 2006 9:52pm CST
Women and Tears; a lethal combination! It’s a common fact that women and tears have this eternal and lethal combination, one that no one, God or human can break through! Women and Tears Women treat people differently. Perhaps because they are the different lot. Also because they possibly don’t now how, they need to be treated. Tears are one of the many assorted weapons they have to get themselves rescued from any given situation. They cry when they are happy, they cry when they are sad and most of all they cry to get something or someone back to a territory which they seem to own, their heart! I wonder why people call women complicated. I think they are the most simplistic form of God’s creation who are generally pre-occupied to make any assumptions or decisions with their limitless minds. Its quite something to understand that women make mistakes and that they think from their hearts rather than thinking from their minds; and quite another when these mistakes are thrust upon them. In a given situation where she deliberately believes that she can falter, she is given a smirk by the man and made to believe that after all she is a woman! Most men find it difficult to relate to tears, thanks to the popular belief that tears are a rather feminine expression of cowardice. Though there are various reasons why women cry, the more popular belief of using them so frequently is because that they long to be loved! It is this simple reason that makes them go through a turmoil of feelings, feelings if not controlled at the proper time can also be come lethal. Tears, an expression of the heart : More often than not tears are the only expression of making people understand that women need to be wanted, caressed. In recent times of course no one has the time to break down but in reality, every women cries heart in heart. Despite professionalism, in the most devastating times, in an office environment, women tend to hold back their tears momentarily, but under the garb of presenting themselves as prim and proper, women bear everything stoically. It is perhaps this general understanding of differentiating between right and wrong is what makes women one of the best bosses in the world, should they want themselves in being so. Tears for some women are God’s way of making them understand the need to become strong. That it is only after a shower of the pain experienced can the effect of strength be generated. It is only when the pus of depression breaks out does the wound get healed. Tears are also necessary in a woman, because it is only tears that makes her shoulders stronger. Most women whom I have questioned so far say the same thing, that the most important part of the body in a woman is not her heart but her shoulder, because it is the shoulder that can hold her head high and also rest someone’s head! Because while a man was made to be ruggedly egoistic, a woman was made to prove to him that there cannot be a world existent without her! Tears and the woman become a lethal combination because however great a man might feel thanks to his ego, it is always a woman’s tears that can open the doors of his soul. It only goes to show that women can do what they want if given the right opportunity, and that tears are only a means of getting there. If only men could understand this and let them have a say of their own too… But then we wouldn’t know what the true value of that glistening drop of pearl that shines from her eye and melts one’s heart. And she can dare to all this because she is a woman! Hail to that!