What do u think of Cheating?Forgivable or not?

Canada
December 18, 2006 9:51pm CST
Every relationship has its ups and downs, but finding out that your man or woman has strayed can be devastating. Yet, for some man and woman, it doesn't always mean the end.Have you ever given an unfaithful partener a second chance?Or would you?Share experiences if you would like...Im asking this because my friend is going through this....And im not sure so i need ur help and input please
4 responses
@cheree (10)
• United States
2 Jan 07
I depends on if your friend loves the person that cheated on them or that they cheated on. It also depends on why they did it is there a good reason why or were they drunk or had a bad fight neither of which is a good excuse really. If it's because they got bored or something that is going to reoccur then no step away from the relationship obviously it's not serious or no one would be cheating. But like i sayed it all depends on what happened that started it.
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• Canada
13 Jan 07
Thanks for posting.
• United States
29 Dec 06
Hummm, it depends on the people, and their relationship. I don't believe in cheating, however, things are not always black and white. I also believe in giving someone atleast one chance if they messed up. Good luck to your friend.
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• Canada
13 Jan 07
Thanks for posting and giving your feedback
@lifeis2good (1183)
• United States
20 Dec 06
You are right - in saying that all relationships have their ups & downs. I think that in this situation it would depend on how the person that was cheated on really feels about it - are they a forgiving type of person or would it be something that would always be on their mind and have them worrying their way through the relationship if they stayed. I personally would never give an unfaithful partner another chance - it's just not in me - and while yes I can be forgiving - that is something that I definitely couldn't forgive!!!! It would hurt way too much!!! Hope your friend makes a decision that he/she is comfortable with!!!!
• Canada
20 Dec 06
Thanks alot for your responce.I see it the same way as you do.I would not be able to forgive a cheating partner.Because when i am with someone i give all my trust.But once the trust is broken thats it.I would always have my doubts if i was still with someone that cheats on me.And a relationship is based on communication and trust.Without those 2 things it will never work out in the long run.
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• Canada
19 Dec 06
I would never stay with a guy who cheated on me! Thats terrible. I cheated on my bf once but it dosnt count because we were broke up for the weekend anyway. So it wasnt really cheeting.
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• Canada
19 Dec 06
Ok than it isnt really cheating..If you werent with him..Does he know about it?