What would you do?
December 19, 2006 9:09am CST
if you found out that your guy still talked to his ex-girlfriend?
25 Apr 07
Well my reaction would depend on the circumstances as to why they are still communicating. If the reason is valid like if they have a son or daughter then I think I can tolerate it for the child's sake. If they are just keeping in touch "just because they are still friends" then I am not comfortable with it I would let him know that I don't like it. Exes should remain exes and should not be in constant communication with each other moreso if the other ex have a current relationship. That's my point of view.
27 Mar 07
My guy still talks to TWO of his EX-WIVES, and I encourage this!!! All four of us are friends now (well 5 because one of them is remarried). They have children together, and they all know the marriage is over. One of them is remarried to another guy, and the other one understands that the marriage is over. I'd rather encourage friendly communication than isolation. I am not the jealous type.
28 Mar 07
Some people are different though, and I appreciate that you have found a way to have relationships with his ex-wives. A lot of the time it depends on not only the partner but the ex. It's very hard to sit there and not get jealous when your boyfriends ex-girlfriend is giggling, and trying to cut you out of the conversation by either blantantly ignoring you or taling about past issues that you can't contribute to, even when the boyfriend is trying to stop the behaviour. Your lucky that your ex's partners don't do that. I wish I had your luck.
25 Apr 07
Well my reaction would depend on the circumstances as to why they are still communicating. If the reason is valid like if they have a son or daughter then I think I can tolerate it for the child's sake. If they are just keeping in touch "just because they are still friends" then I am not comfortable with it I would let him know that I don't like it. Exes should remain exes and should be in constant communication with each other. That's my point of view.
3 Apr 07
He's honest with me about this kind of thing.. But he do try to avoid it, his ex is already married and he told me he loves me very much and doesn't think about his past is enough for me not to get worried. But one time his ex message him through ym, I felt a bit cold but he understands me probably I was just insecure about it..
31 Mar 07
I definitely kick him... hahah. How do you know that there is nothing they feel towards each other? How do you know that the spark completely gone between them? Especially if that is his first love. Beware of your boyfriend's first love..... i have a friend who take it lightly when she found out that her boyfriend talked to his ex. Then... a few months later, they got back together.. left my friends sobbing on my shoulder... love sometimes cruel,huh?
25 Mar 07
I am in a smiliar situation to you and to be honest I waver between wanting to throttle him and also for some sickening reason wanting to know exactly what went on between them so I know where I stand. All I can say is hang in there really and keep a eye on the situation. And try to take a few deep breaths when you get really mad!