Discuss the topics privately with our choice friends only at myLot..

Indonesia
December 19, 2006 9:32am CST
I read again "about myLot" and I found this: "We provide each member with myLot Mail; giving the member an opportunity to discuss topics privately with members of their choice. (coming soon!)" Of course, we've got the feature. My point of discussion is, do you think it's good if the discussion is limited for a group of friends only? Which one you prefer? Limited discussion or open discussion?
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@mimpi1911 (25479)
• India
21 Dec 06
it's actually both ways for me. i would always prefer open discussions for more generalised posts where anyone and evryone is invited. but i am afraid this would call for digression, inferior response quality and consume more time. it leaves me sad with some of the responses with is so blatantly brief and deviating from the topic. having said this i would go for open discussion which means more responses and the chances of quality responses gets better with the number. however, for very personal matters, i would want to discuss discreetly with my selcted few friends whom i trust and whose opinion i respect. obviously i am talking about very sensitive personal issues, which cud go strayed away when posted in the open forum. or i am afraid my problem cud get diluted, disregarded by some of the comments and donot want myself to get hurt. better option for me would be getting opinion from my close frriends, who i know would respect the gravity of the post. thanx for listening, i hope it wasn't too much talking in a single post!!
• Indonesia
21 Dec 06
So, you agree with what myLot has given to us. There's open discussions and there's private message. That's cool. But, what about limited members discussion? I mean, it's 10-30 members only in one discussion. It is cool, isn't it? and I think it will bring more qualities...
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@mimpi1911 (25479)
• India
22 Dec 06
yes, i was talking about limited number of friends' responses only. it's cool indeed .
• Indonesia
22 Dec 06
Thanks for making me sure about the limited discussion..I think you got the point. I really appreciate it.
• Kuwait
22 Dec 06
for me it is better to have open discussion, your idea is nice but how about others who don't have enough friends to support discussion. and some are just posting discussion and replying to others discussion that catch their attention. my lot has private messaging you can do that to your recipient of choice.
• Indonesia
22 Dec 06
For people who don't have enough friends, there is still the open discussions. I don't mean there's no open discussions anymore. We have 3 options: open discussion, limited discussion and private message. What do you think? It's nice, isn't it?
• Singapore
20 Dec 06
i think i would want my discussion to be an open discussion, no point having limited discussion and not be able to hear other's opinion.mylot Mail? is that the same as the private messages? hmm...i need to read the guideline again then...Thanks for pointing this out!
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• Indonesia
20 Dec 06
I think it's same with private messages. I agree if open discussion is good. But, we could still be able to hear quality opinions from our quality friends too. Thanks for the opinion. I really appreciate it.
@Furrukh (701)
• Pakistan
20 Dec 06
well i would like to have an open discussion,i mean if it was a discussion only for a limited number of people than whats the purpose to have discussions on mylot,i think there are many duffenret sites that can provide such things.i will only prefer open dicussions
• Indonesia
20 Dec 06
Actually, some discussions are limited discussion, though they are open to all the members. Such as, the discussion about specific religion (Islam, Christian, Bible, etc), Football, nation, etc..Some discussions are still open discussion, but the other are closed discussions..
@remaster74 (4065)
• Greece
20 Dec 06
There are some things that you probably don't want to discuss with lots of people. They give you the chance to do this privately. That simple.
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• Indonesia
20 Dec 06
I understand about the private message. But, what about the discussion for 10-30 friends only? I mean, it's closed discussion. Does it still make sense? Thanks for the opinion. I really appreciate it.
• Indonesia
21 Dec 06
I think it already started now. cause from yesterday I receive a message and to reply it we don't need to make some message anymore just respond it on the message that you've been receive? Am i right? correct me if I'm wrong:D:D
• Indonesia
21 Dec 06
Actually, it happened because you turn on the notifier. But, it just connect you with a friend..It would be better if there's interconnection too. So, we could choose 10-30 (the number whatever) members only and we discuss with them only. That's what I mean limited discussion...What do you think?
@Dennik (540)
• Philippines
21 Dec 06
I'm interested in that limited discussion. Do you celebrate Christmas? If yes, I will take this opportunity to greet you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year (though is not yet Dec. 25, I may not have a chance to greet you anymore so I will do it now). http://dchallenger.blogdrive.com
• Indonesia
22 Dec 06
Thanks for your interesting. I really appreciate it. But, I need the reason of your interesting. I don't ask about Christmas and your blog...