How Do You Manage Rejection?

I don't think rejection is that big of a deal. I suppose that sometimes it stings a little, but you just have to remember that it's a numbers game. I don't mind getting turned down my 6-8 women, if one out of ten says yes and turns out to be someone that's fun to spend time with. There are a lot people that spend too much time agnozing over rejection and get low self-esteem who cares. If I get rejected I let them know it's there loss. I like approaching women and trying to talk to them and they'll play the, "I have a boyfriend," card and I'll be like "JESUS woman. Do you really think I'm trying to pick you up before I even know anything about you. I was just looking to meet some new people. Often times they'll come back and apologize and say that don't even really have a boyfriend, they were just tired of guys trying to get in their pants. Some of the women that have rejected me have turned out to be my best friends. They give me advice on how to pick up other women and what clothes and shoes to wear out on dates. I have good taste, but it's always nice to have reassurance from a woman.

Being rejected always hurts ... it's a blow to our self confidence ... I think a big lesson in life I've learned is that you cannot make someone love you however much you may love them ... if you are not also the love of their life they will break up and go their own way at some point .. We are just one person in a world of millions .. I've no idea how you are supposed to find that 'extra special' partner ... but the only way you will find them is to try new relationships until you find that 'one' person ... I've never bothered trying to get 'even' with someone for breaking up with me ... just been glad to have had that time with them .. sulked a little ... then moved on ... trying to 'get even' is a demoralising waste of energy and time

It's not always rejection. There is difference of opinion, not the same view, no agreement of the situation, etc. Don't attribute things to your own person, is it's not strictly the case. So when applying for a job, get refused. Think that there was a candidate which was slightly better then you. Don't judge yourself to hard. It won't get you further.

dude,,it hurts specially when you really fell in love whit that person....im never get even with the person,,,,,i just let it to life,,,its more powerful that anything i might do!!

I would first have my feelings hurt, but then I would get over it. I never made it my mission to get even with that person. But some time down the road, I always had the opportunity to do so. Sometimes I would get them, other times I just shrug it off, they weren't worthe my time.