Who is a boss - husband or wife?

India
December 20, 2006 2:58am CST
Who is the boss of home? Is it husband or wife? I know it differs from family to family. But as majority Women is the boss of home. What do you think??
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11 responses
• India
20 Dec 06
Who is a boss - husband or wife - Who is a boss - husband or wife
The best situation is where there is no boss. If things are amicably handled, the house is a beautiful place to be in. But there would be exchanges from time to time and there no body is going to run away or give in. Sometimes this process becomes a "chemical reaction" and the equilibrium is reached. (Both move towards it). Thereafter all things calm down and the responsibility and authority domains get defined for the two. You are confused (by looking at the fights between other couples). Every house is a separate entity and laws of equilibrium are defined by the couple itself and not by the laws of the neighbours.
• India
21 Dec 06
You agree or not. In one house Boss is one whether it is wife or husband.. Anyway I liked the photograph
@gotcho0O (1258)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Mostly it is women. But in general, it should be no boss at all. How will a relationship sail smoothly if there's someone who will lead the family? There should be an equally decision in anything. Helping each other and communicating well will bring out a not perfect but best living love at home.
@justreal (2369)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
It all depends, if the husband is a wimp, then the wife is the Boss.
• Canada
22 Dec 06
Both are boss, both are equal and important.NO DIFFERENCE
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
i will be a "wife" someday, i must answer your question, as i think i should - wife should be the boss! haha kiddin aside, they should always give and take, that's how their relationship must be.
• United States
22 Dec 06
We're old fashioned but we believe in the biblical principle of the husband being the head of the house and the wife being a keeper of the home. I know there are a lot of families where the wife is the head but that doesn't work for us. I don't want to be in charge and don't need to be in charge. I know my place and am content, nay happy, to be in it. :)
@suveen (35)
• India
22 Dec 06
Depending upon the situation it differs.but collective work is productive
@ndraj_2006 (1422)
• India
20 Dec 06
its All About Love there is no Boss inthe home.but, both should love each other.
@psyd_1 (470)
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
usually the wife became the boss, as what i ahve observed here in our country..but when it comes to decision makings usually the fathers voice is to be followed..tahts our tradition her in the Philippines..but for me, i think no one should be on top of the other..best way would be understanding..you cant fight fiure with fire..all things can be made and decided through smooth conversations..i say both, the wife and the husband, would be the bosses in their own family..hope this helps some..thanks...
@paulnet (748)
• India
20 Dec 06
yaa wife is a boss at home, coz she deserves it as she gives out every effort to run it for the family.
@rmx2006 (443)
• Malaysia
20 Dec 06
the best way is to work together at home :D