How can you kill loneliness?

@saeedsid (1120)
Pakistan
December 20, 2006 2:58pm CST
How can we kill our Loneliness? Any suggestions? or i must say help....
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@Ravenladyj (22993)
• United States
30 Dec 06
I find myself lonely at times but I think its mainly because I went from living in a city, in a place I'm familiar with and always having ppl aroudn to living in another country where I have nobody near me that I know and living out in the country with no access to a city etc...I spend more time alone in the course of a week than I do with anyone (including my family) and it gets tough at times cause bottomline, I'm a city girl through and through and for yrs my house back in Canada was the one that always had ppl in it, it was the local hangout I always had ppl visiting etc and I really do miss that...but I've learned that I also enjoy being alone (always have but not having the option now of being with ppl is what makes it hard for me)...I enjoy my own company...I enjoy spending time finally doing things that I WANT to do rather than NEED to do...I spend time working out, watching movies, reading, writing, painting and drawing etc...and the "he said she said" bullshyt of hanging out with ppl just got to be too much...I have zero tolerance for that and for jealousy in friendship... You said that even when you are with your friends you feel alone right? maybe its time to re-evaluate those friendships...cause it shouldnt be that way..Why not take a step back from the social life and get to knwo you a bit better then act on what you learn...
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
30 Dec 06
Thnx a lot for your advice I think it would definitely work for me :)
• India
21 Dec 06
hmm sorry cant say....
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
21 Dec 06
Ok thanx for your participation.
• United Arab Emirates
20 Dec 06
lol.....hmm well find another lone person and figer out how to kill it:) i hope that make u smile:)
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
21 Dec 06
Ahan lone person hehe
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
i can say that u do what u really enjoy doing,like listening to music, chatting, watching tv. Their are lots of thing u can do to kill ur loneliness
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
21 Dec 06
I think it would work so I will try to follow your advice.
@patootie (3593)
20 Dec 06
I have lived on my own since 1986 ... I don't make friends easily .. and don't really enjoy any of the 'usual' social crowd things ... As a child I was always ill and had to stay home from school ... I've lived in Africa for a year away from family and friends ... My only sibling moved to Australia in 1968 .. so I have always been on my own ... most of my jobs have involved working on my own ... Yet I have never felt lonely ... none of which is very helpful to you of course ... You don't say why you feel lonely ??
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@saeedsid (1120)
• Pakistan
20 Dec 06
Though I have lots of friends and gathering too but when I am with them I feel myself all alone.....dont know why I come across this sort of a feeling when all my friends and dear ones are with me:(
@sudhajan (1230)
• France
30 Dec 06
Lonely - Lonely
You can read books, go around the places, go to friends places,play games . May be u can become good chef ..try out different receipies..share ur feelings with family/ friends ....
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@vikceo (1301)
• India
21 Dec 06
to give you a suggestion i guess it is important for me to know something about you, your life style, your occupation. i hope i will be able to suggest something healthy.
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@Bbilal (2001)
28 Feb 07
The best way to kill our lonliness is to make friends but as I like to be alone in this world! I prefer not to have friend but I have some fews which are very good with me. If you do not want to make friends another option is to get busy in your hobbies like listening music, playing something, surfing on my Lot and all these things like that. I hope it will help you alot! best of luck for your lonliness saeed. ALLAH hafis.
• India
28 Feb 07
never think that ur alone all world is with u by the way i kill it by doing different activities like by watching televisison music etc.
@phon4u (2217)
• Laos
31 Dec 06
Free being loniness by post your reply at 'Mylot', send personal positive messages. Joint Yahoo messengers. Go out to meet friends. Keep busy as much as you can. You can add me as a friend, so you won't be lonely any more.
31 Dec 06
Go to chat site and make many friends there. You'll be glad and happy!
@utsadetti (4593)
• United States
31 Dec 06
by joining mylot it's okay to be alone lol. it seems so many friends here on internet.