How can you kill loneliness?
• United States
30 Dec 06
I find myself lonely at times but I think its mainly because I went from living in a city, in a place I'm familiar with and always having ppl aroudn to living in another country where I have nobody near me that I know and living out in the country with no access to a city etc...I spend more time alone in the course of a week than I do with anyone (including my family) and it gets tough at times cause bottomline, I'm a city girl through and through and for yrs my house back in Canada was the one that always had ppl in it, it was the local hangout I always had ppl visiting etc and I really do miss that...but I've learned that I also enjoy being alone (always have but not having the option now of being with ppl is what makes it hard for me)...I enjoy my own company...I enjoy spending time finally doing things that I WANT to do rather than NEED to do...I spend time working out, watching movies, reading, writing, painting and drawing etc...and the "he said she said" bullshyt of hanging out with ppl just got to be too much...I have zero tolerance for that and for jealousy in friendship... You said that even when you are with your friends you feel alone right? maybe its time to re-evaluate those friendships...cause it shouldnt be that way..Why not take a step back from the social life and get to knwo you a bit better then act on what you learn...
20 Dec 06
I have lived on my own since 1986 ... I don't make friends easily .. and don't really enjoy any of the 'usual' social crowd things ... As a child I was always ill and had to stay home from school ... I've lived in Africa for a year away from family and friends ... My only sibling moved to Australia in 1968 .. so I have always been on my own ... most of my jobs have involved working on my own ... Yet I have never felt lonely ... none of which is very helpful to you of course ... You don't say why you feel lonely ??
28 Feb 07
The best way to kill our lonliness is to make friends but as I like to be alone in this world! I prefer not to have friend but I have some fews which are very good with me. If you do not want to make friends another option is to get busy in your hobbies like listening music, playing something, surfing on my Lot and all these things like that. I hope it will help you alot! best of luck for your lonliness saeed. ALLAH hafis.