Homeschooling Vs. Public School.....

United States
December 21, 2006 10:01am CST
I have recently started homeschooling my children. I was extremely unhappy about the education that they were receiving in public school, and I can't afford to send them to private school. I have encountered lots of people who are opposed to homeschooling, but others have given me great encouragement. I'm hoping to get some more opinions, and possibly some statistics, so that I will be better prepared to defend my decision when I come across someone who feels the need to tell me what a huge mistake I'm making......Thanks!
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20 responses
• Pakistan
22 Dec 06
Homeschooling is not a good choice at all ,you must admit your children to school so that they can brought up in competitive environment which will not be available at home and also school brings confident,friends,courage,character,skills and so many things which will not be available at home at that extent ....it will be good idea to have them taught at home also but school is very necessary.
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
22 Dec 06
"school brings confident,friends,courage,character,skills and so many things which will not be available at home at that extent " actually the school setting can in fact be the opposite and give kids a lack of confidence, lack of friends, lack of courage, low self esteem all of which will affect their skills....
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you for your responses!
• United States
22 Dec 06
Dreadstar...thank you for your response.... However, I did not pull my children out of public school because teachers didn't like them. I simply didn't believe that they were receiving education that was up to par with their academic levels. All of my children are academically advanced, especially my oldest child. If you check out the statistics, you will find that in general, children who are homeschooled receive far better scores on State issued tests then those who are public schooled. My fourth grade son (he is 10) is already getting into advanced algebra. Do you think that he would have had the opportunity to expand his knowledge that far in public school? Absolutely not....
22 Dec 06
home schooling is good as the kid can go at there own speed to learn but public school has all the facilities and qualified teachers which would be better than home schooling
@isha900 (1459)
• India
22 Dec 06
yes i agree with stetment but i think so we shouldnt give more strees from bigning so we should join the home school of our child
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thanks for your input!
@katyzzz (2897)
• Australia
21 Jan 07
Public school is just fine, you can always supplement at home, don't deny them those very real social interactions
• United States
21 Jan 07
I appreciate your comment....however, my children are anything BUT denied social interaction. They have many friends, all of them play sports, they are involved in music, and take part in our church's youth group activities. In my opinion, school should be completely separate from social time. School is for learning. While their "social lives" are important, it comes second to their education. Homeschooling allows ME, their mother, to properly balance their learning time and their social time. It also allows me to be involved in their social activity. It is a fact that children are more then likely to learn a lot of innapropriate things from other children during "social interactions" that happen in public schools, such as at recess.
@Danielu (599)
• Romania
22 Dec 06
In don`t know the situation in your country but in my country public school are better than homeschooles.
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thanks for your response!
@wmaharper (2316)
• United States
19 Jan 07
I hear that all the time, that homeshchooling is a horrible mistake! But I don't think so. I think you need to do what is best for you and your family, if that includes Homeshcooling, then so be it. your children can get social "education" plenty of other places, you still live in the same neighborhood with the same friends they had before, now they just see them after school. I know of plenty of people who were homeschooled and are not socially inept, and even better, they are very brilliant well adjusted people. they excelled in school because they had one on one time with thier "teacher" when they had problems. Good luck!
• United States
19 Jan 07
I really appreciate your input....you seem pretty knowledgable about the advantages of homeschooling!
23 Jan 07
hi sarah. i think homeschooling is more beneficial to children because they are getting the full attention they need whereas at school the teacher has to cope with 20 or more pupils. they won't be distracted from other kids so focusing fully on the work they are given. also working with their mom they will more likely ask you something they are not quite understanding or having difficulty with. some kids are shy and would not be prepared to ask for the teachers help. good luck!
@babs0818 (1191)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I have thought about homeschooling my kids also...where would i turn to,to find out more about that...my local district..?
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thanks Babs for your response.... Depending on where you live, you need to send a letter of your intent to homeschool to either the Superintendent of Schools, or even the principal of your childs current school. If you call the Superintendent's office, they can give you the exact information that you need to provide. Then, after that, you can either purchase a curriculum for your child/ren, or you can even go online and print out worksheets and other things. The beauty of homeschooling is that the kids generally learn by doing things "hands-on", as opposed to just sitting at a desk all day. But the parents definitely have to be committed to spending the time and effort. It is a labor of love, and I know that it will be worth it in the long run.
@krizz420 (4385)
• Canada
22 Dec 06
Im alot like you. Im really not satisfied with what my kids are learning in school. I got 1 whos 14 and still has a hard time spelling because there teacher overlooks spelling mistakes. Must be nice when I was in grade school if you and spelling mistakes you where made to write them out repeadtly then have a quiz. By that time the words where burned into your head. Now a days its like the teachers are passing everyone and missing some kids learning disabilities in the process which makes it harder for them as they get older. My 14 is going into high school soon and like I said she has a problem with spelling while my son has got a problem in math and spelling. They both go to the same school you see similarities. While my oldest is 16 in a Catholic school shes doing great because they take the time to work with each child there. See home schooling is better in 2 ways and those are you control the environment of the teaching surroundings and you also control the the material thats being taught. There are down sides as well like your child does'nt get to assosicate with others and wont learn properly how to get along with many different types of people he/she might come in contact with. If I was you just keep home schooling them and eventually work them back into a better school if you have 1 around. I wont home school my kids because Im still learning alot of stuff myself.
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you for your post....can't you complain to the principal of the school? I would definitely try that, and if they didn't listen, go to the Superintendent. If they still wouldn't listen, I would even contact the local newspaper, and see if they would run an article about the lack of concern and competence that the teachers are exhibiting. I sincerely wish you all the best with all of your kids...you seem like a very caring mother!
@pramod05 (26)
• India
22 Dec 06
every aspect has its + and - points definitely homeschooling is good but public schools are much differnt and develops the to live independently and will take many manerisims which are very essential in persent compittitive world
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thanks for your response!
@shemb1 (464)
• Sri Lanka
22 Dec 06
Home schooling is good for kids under 5 years. but I belive not suitable who higher than 5 years, Because learnning something tpo kid is not easy thing , for that we need lots of new things , experience , ect............... Thats why people go school for proper education, in their they only get how to behaive in public, respect to public, trust someone, like lots of thing that we cant get from the home. So I suggest for kids this education is ok(home schooling) but its not suitable for above 5 years kid.
• United States
22 Dec 06
But most home schooled kids aren't kept in a bubble. Most of them have plenty of interaction with other children and adults. Not only that, it's the interaction with well behaved kids and adults that teaches them positive things, not the interaction with the not so well behaved kids that populate schools. Respect, manners, trust - those are things that are taught at home FIRST. You don't learn much of that in today's schools. The studies show that home schooled kids perform better on testing than kids in public or private schools and that most of them are perfectly well adjusted. :)
@JMPILAPIL (503)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
If you think it's good for them then there's nothing wrong with that. You know what's good for your children since they already experienced how is it to be in public school they can tell you the difference.
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you for your response!
• United States
22 Dec 06
If I had the patience to do it, I would homeschool, too. Actually I think the trend to homeschool is rising - when I was in school everybody was either in public school or catholic school...then when I was sending my oldest to school I met some people who homeschool. My brother in law homeschools their 5 kids ..there's statewide events for homeschooled kids and there's lots and lots and lots of people there.
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you for your response!
@lucsct (261)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I think homeschooling can be good sometimes. It's better for some students than others, as they might need more attention in certain areas than a teacher in charge of 15+ students can provide. However, what worries me about homeschooling (and I am in no way trying to say you or any homeschooling mom/dad is incompetent), is that there are certain subjects that someone who is not a certified teacher will not encounter often as an adult, and therefore might have forgotten (what middle aged person remembers every little thing they were taught in 3rd grade?). This makes the parent who is homeschooling a little less than qualified, especially compared to someone who went to school in order to be in the field of education.
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thanks for responding!
• United States
22 Dec 06
I homeschooled my sons for about 6 years. You're right that a lot of people disapprove of homeschooling but it's your decision, not theirs. As for stats, here are a few to keep in mind: The Rudner Study shows that the average homeschooling 8th grader performs 4 grades above the national average. At every grade level and in every subject of the ITBS and TAP batteries, homeschool students scored quite a bit higher than students in public or private schools. The Home School Legal Defense Association has some nice stats at: http://www.hslda.org/docs/nche/000010/200410250.asp I support you in your effort to homeschool your children and wish you the best of luck!
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you so much for taking the time to post those statistics for me! I know they will be really helpful to me!
@Metallion (2227)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Well here are some things to think of. Do you know enough about every subject that your child would learn in school? Most people have a weakness in one or two which is why teachers specialize. Also, are you involving your kids in sports or social groups? One of the major attributes of schools are the interaction with peers for kids.
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you for your response.... My kids are VERY involved in sports, take music lessons, and are also involved in our church. My oldest son plays baseball and football, and he takes guitar lessons, my 8 year old plays baseball and basketball, and my 6 year old plays baseball....he was actually chosen to be a part of our town's All-Star team, because he played so good this past season. My point is that my children have very healthy and active social time, but my husband and I are very involved with their social lives.
@Zhanec (1651)
• Malaysia
22 Dec 06
I would say public, because your kid has the opportunity to learn about life.A child has more opportunity to socialize in the public school system. That is one of the most important aspects of public school over home schooling.
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you for your response!
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
22 Dec 06
Oh I've been there...my own family was really mean when I pulled my kids and started homeschooling..they are now eating their words because my kids are happier, back in public school in a different country and are A students in fact my daughter scores above average and in gr 4 had a gr 7 math ability...so yea, I'm all for homeschooling whether its structured or unschooling like what we did...if you are up for the challenge and the change then I say go for it and poo poo on those who are negative.....and did you know that 6 or so yrs ago the national spellign bee champ was a homeschooler? numerous famous ppl have been homeschooled and bottomline, ONLY YOU know whats best for your children ;-) all the best to you!!!
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you for your kind words of encouragement!
@isha900 (1459)
• India
22 Dec 06
i think homeschool is fine till 4 yr bcoz they need personal support and after that they need to public school bcoz they dont need to take strees for faninshal problem u can equisition the money through the mylot u need to work hard
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you for your response!
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
Very good - a must read
Sometimes its not in the school... its the students... no matter how nice and prestigious a school is but if the kid doesnt have any interest in studying nothing will still happen. My cousin is currently doing homeschooling and doing some parttime jobs here and there because they dont have much but his parents thought him the value of education so he is doing well... Just make sure that your kids dont also miss out on other school activities like physical education, social interaction with other people and kids of their age... make it balance as if you are the teacher so that they will still be guided accordingly. Make sure they know the value of education.
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thanks for your comments!
• United States
22 Dec 06
I'm actually being homeschooled too. And I love it. :]
• United States
22 Dec 06
Thank you for commenting.....I really appreciate it!