Do most men/women like their lovers to be slim/fit?

I like men to be slim and I like myself to be slim and I think most guys like it bettr if a girl is slim. I would hate to be fat I think nobody would like me if I was fat.

Maybe I do get attracted to slim and fit persons rather than the bigger ones. But what's more important is that he should have a good heart and is fun to be with. Merry Christmas to you all.

I really think that is a personal feeling. There are a lot of people out there that really get turned on from fat or obese people. I don't, but, I do like some meat, rather than too thin, on a guy. I am regular. My husband did not like it when I was thinner.

yups

i prefer a guy who is average.he's fit but not to fit.i don't like those really muscular guys and if he has a small potbelly then that's ok.what really matters is that we are ok with each other.

i think so, because my bf always told me that it's nice a girl if she's slim. but i told him it's ok also if they have an extra pound's and if you like her just accept what she has don't always look to thier physical appearance.

not really . some people look cute when they have little extra pounds

My think that a slim/fit women/men will like that their lover to be the same. You really don't see much slim people who want's a not so slim (fat is a ugly word :) ) person to have beside's them.

not soo slim but fit at health

mainly because we have been conditioned by the media to see slim as attractive. many men are attracted to fuller figured women. centuries ago, that is the only kind of figure that was considered attractive. As men mature yes, it happens! they find personality is much more important.

yes put some ppl who r overweight look good too..but in the end it is the heart n the feelings that matter the most..

i don't think love is between 2 bodies but 2 hearts

yeah.... also rich, and beautiful.

Not too slim but she should control her weight according to her height.

Me and my husband arent slim but we arent overweight. We love each other the way we are and if one of us wants to lose weight then we work on it together.

no,i dont..i dont want my men to be slim..i want a real men..i dont need a stick..actually i hate slim guys..i mean they should have at least strong hads or some muscules..if not..what guy he is..

My boyfriend wanted me to stay slim as I am now. He wanted me to be sexy^^. In my case, I want my boyfriend to stay chubby because I like hugging him.

being a woman, i would want my man to be fit indeed, but not very slim, i mean, slim to the extent of thin. infact, i would love to lean on a big shoulder and a paunch--it would be so satisfying. i just have to have myself pampered with his big shoulder and hands.

hummm..., i want to be slim but i like plumpy people !!! so i want my man to be plumpy but fit but not too plumpy!!! if he is then ,then i dont mind.. will give him nice nourshiments and make him chubby and fit!!! lol.. whatever i like my partner if he is going to chubby and fit if not then i lovee him more!!! nothing gonna make make difference,anyway he is my darling!!!

not slim but fittness is important .... without fitness no body like us