Does virginity need to be maintained until your honeymoon?

@byx2006 (432)
Philippines
December 22, 2006 4:52am CST
Some say, virginity is the only pure thing that you can give to your partner. Some say, virginity is not important anymore and you should ashamed if you’re still virgin. How about you?
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senna9
@senna9 (1666)
• Netherlands
22 Dec 06
i dont think it should be maintained until the marriage. that is very old. i dont think that you can sleep with just anyone but if you had 2 or 3 partners before you marry it is not a shame.
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smbilalshah
@smbilalshah (1316)
• Pakistan
22 Dec 06
ashamed of being a virgin? OMG wat has happened to this world i think its the best gift u can offer ur partner n thats wat marriage is for.......so many western marriages fail coz theres nothing special left to it... i say its better to keep ur virginity atleast thats wat the religion says but uptill honey moon u said i say u can keep it even after that if u want to hahahaha lolz
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byx2006
@byx2006 (432)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
eastern?
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smbilalshah
@smbilalshah (1316)
• Pakistan
23 Dec 06
yep not only eastern also a muslim
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rms2727
@rms2727 (815)
• India
3 Jan 07
i dont know whay verginity is such a big issue with some people.. i think verginity is simply a state of mind and nothing to do with physical. mentally i am a vergin but physically i am not,,
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byx2006
@byx2006 (432)
• Philippines
4 Jan 07
how do you say so?
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spec71
@spec71 (796)
• United States
26 Dec 06
hmmmm...what a doubt...u need to have ur virginity...u see losing it before honeymoon, decreases the amount of enjoyment and thrill involved !
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Ravenladyj
@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
26 Dec 06
I would never ever EVER tell someone they should be ashamed of being a virgin, thats just idiotic! and if one feels they want to save themselves for the honeymoon all the power to them! Thats a very beautiful idea..Would I have if I'd had the opportunity? HELL NO! but thats just me...I think it is solely up to the individual as it should be
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jmiemempin
@jmiemempin (37)
• Philippines
22 Dec 06
no, its love
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zee579
@zee579 (434)
• Pakistan
4 Jan 07
I don't think there is anything to be ashamed of. It is always good to loose your virginity to your partner but it is difficult to tell these days.
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byx2006
@byx2006 (432)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
why do you say so? have you experienced?
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wildecoyote
@wildecoyote (975)
• Australia
23 Jan 07
I think you should be a virgin till you marry. You can then learn together and also neither have the opportunity to compare you to a previous partner.
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