Is my fiance an alcoholic?

United States
December 22, 2006 4:33pm CST
ok.....here's the situation. I think Donnie is an alcoholic, yet he says no he isn't. Everyday after work, he and his boss drink two twelve packs between them. On days they don't work, they drink from around 10 am (or earlier) until around 10 pm (or later). Thats on the days he's NOT in town with me. Is this an alcoholic?
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• India
23 Dec 06
I think yes he Drinking .. that to a lot.... take him to a pyshologist.. who will make him stop drinking..... these doctors .. change our mindsa in such a way that.. ur fiance will hate drinking..
@rhea_lyn (199)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
Yeahh he is..give him an advice not to drink too much bcoz not good for the health specially when his working.Tell Him to Slow down and know the limitation.
@doniker (493)
• United States
22 Dec 06
I am a 43 year old man, and in my younger days I drank at about the same pace as this Donnie. I still drink alot but have slowed down some. Why is his drinking a problem to you? Is the money he spends? Does he become an a*hole when he drinks? I drank alot because I liked it and all my friends did.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
2 Jan 07
If it is a problem for spouse it is a problem why isnt the issue
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@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
24 Dec 06
i think so.
• Romania
24 Dec 06
Yes I think he is. From what he said he drinks way too much .
@armywifey (883)
• United States
23 Dec 06
Probely yes, but it depends on certain things like could he stop if he had to.
@amithzepp (153)
• India
23 Dec 06
hey this is a nice topic
• Greece
23 Dec 06
yes i think he is.
@rterrell (24)
• United States
23 Dec 06
I'm not the one to say that he is an alcholic, and speaking from experience if that is alll that he does then I would watch out for even more negative times. BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!
• United States
23 Dec 06
yes, especially if he's denying it. that's pretty sad. Go to AA and get pamphlets that signify what defines an alky. this will probably piss him off, but it'll prove your point. I'm sorry, living with an alcohlic is the worst.
• China
23 Dec 06
what does he drink for,for business or only for drinking?
• Spain
23 Dec 06
well at least he is your fiance and not your husband, so you have every chance of dealing with this problem now. And if you think he has one now, then he sure as hell will get worse when he has a wife to come home to.
@andreib14 (407)
• Romania
23 Dec 06
let's see. if she can't stop drinking is an alchoolic, if she not she isn't. or..if she can't stay some time alow drink she is too. sorry
@openedone (240)
• France
23 Dec 06
so i admire you honey !
• United States
23 Dec 06
He definately is. You cannot change him if he doesn't want to be changed. Sounds like the boss isn't a great person for him to be around either. He needs to get counseling, or I wouldn't marry him. I couldn't be with someone who was drunk most of his life with me. What about when you have kids?
@Chiriac (287)
• Romania
23 Dec 06
I think it is. sorry.
@gabs8513 (48715)
• United Kingdom
23 Dec 06
I agree with you if it was just 1 or 2 then it would not be so bad but the amount he takes in yes I agree with you it is a lot to drink and to start at that time of the morning is awful
@Metallion (2229)
• United States
23 Dec 06
Umm, if you really need to ask that's not a good example of your judgement. That is excessive drinking, where in the world do the work? Somehow I don't quite believe this story!
• India
23 Dec 06
YA He is an alchoholic. There is no doubt about this.
• India
23 Dec 06
yes i think he is cause this is not for fun it's a habit or addiction of aichohol
• India
23 Dec 06
hi...........first u shld ask him then u just go 2 his work place n confirm whts there