Have your guy/gal asked you to change yourself?

@anjuscor (1266)
India
December 23, 2006 11:36am CST
Have your guy/gal/husband/wife asked you to change yourself? My guy never did. He never told me till date. He always tells me that he loves the way i am. But i tell him how he has to be. I dont want him to get closer with girls. I tell him each and everything form dressing. Even though i ask, he tells me he loves me because he doesnt find anything to change in myself. Till now, he has told me that, he doesnt like me being so possesive with him, thats all.
4 responses
• United States
23 Dec 06
my husband wants to change me but its not gonna work if doesnt like who i am then he shouldnt have married me
@anjuscor (1266)
• India
23 Dec 06
There should be some understandings right? You have to live for him, and he too. So why do you think you should not be changed.If its bad thing which u need to change, you can change for himself right. Dont take it wrong, just an advise.
@vicky1322 (172)
• India
23 Dec 06
My girl friend also tells me all the stuff that you tell to your guy.
@anjuscor (1266)
• India
23 Dec 06
Oh thats nice. I like that. But i dont restrict my guy. I tell him i dont like it. Then he says fine, i dont do it. So i think your girl is possessive.Is that right?
@phon4u (2217)
• Laos
4 Jan 07
she used to ask me to change when she likes to.
@Doober01 (197)
• United States
23 Dec 06
You dont ask somene to chage period... If you love them deal with it. Otherwise deal with it.