will you marry the girl you love if she is dead ? / myLot

Malaysia

December 24, 2006 8:26pm CST

if it happens that the your lover died out of some unexspected reason .Will u still marry to him/her ?There is ceremony to marry the living and death in chinese tradition.Just put urself in that position ,will u do so?

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5 responses

euniceeleanor

@euniceeleanor (5967)

• Singapore

30 Dec 06

no! lol i'm scared that the guy would come back and haunt me after that and i could never have another relationship ever again....LOL say me selfish, but i dont believe that there should be such ceremony at all!!! it's too freaky!

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Zhanec

@Zhanec (1651)

• Malaysia

14 Feb 07

eh.my dear,believe me...this ceremony still practices by many Chinese ppl..

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gharinder

@gharinder (2044)

• India

14 Feb 07

i think your question is too difficult to answer, but at times one has to think practically, one cannot fall victim in the hands of time, life still goes on, and i think we should accept the situations, fight as best we could and move on for a great, good begining.

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Zhanec

@Zhanec (1651)

• Malaysia

14 Feb 07

thanks gharinder for the reply ^^

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maddog108

@maddog108 (3435)

• Australia

25 Dec 06

it sounds a bit silly to me.when you lose a loved one its sad you greave then move on.this sounds like it would slow down the greaving process and take longer to recover

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Zhanec

@Zhanec (1651)

• Malaysia

25 Dec 06

thaks for ur reply..its really hard to move on sometimes..

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