Can a Guy & a Girl just be friends & never fall in love?

@shedii (1487)
India
December 26, 2006 12:05am CST
Can it be possible that a girl & a guy just be friends & never develop any other feelings for each other?...can it be just friendship? I have heard many people saying most friends end in relationships & get ruined. What's your opinion?
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@rkrahul (14)
• India
26 Dec 06
yes of course, a guy & a girl can be only friends
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@shedii (1487)
• India
28 Dec 06
thanks for responding!
@Hamlet333 (724)
• Pakistan
26 Dec 06
yes they can b frnds 4ever widout falling in love.
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@shedii (1487)
• India
28 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
@anita99 (19)
• India
26 Dec 06
Yes they can remain friends. But if they take their friendship very seriously, it can lead to love.
@shedii (1487)
• India
28 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
@nidhii (17)
• India
26 Dec 06
i think its possible that a guy and girl be only friends if they are childhood friends or if love is one sided.
@shedii (1487)
• India
27 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
@uskolabu (37)
• United States
26 Dec 06
It can be just friendship but depend on which level the friendship took you to. Some boys and girls develop friendship because they have things in common not because they want to be lover or they are infatuated but because they realise that they need each other because they have things or do things in common. To be candid, most relationship end up to be infatuation only where the relationship is real, true and honest one then, it can lead to marriage. Mark you, you can be in relationship for years without expressing your feeling and at the dying minute you discover that that guy is deply in love with you. When you are in love first time findout what type of relationship you are in. Ask yourself what you really want from the relationship and what did you intend to get and what did you intend to give. Cheers!!
@shedii (1487)
• India
27 Dec 06
thanks for your valueable response!
@thumper2 (128)
• United States
26 Dec 06
Yes, I have had a male friend for the past 20years, and there's been nothing more than friendship. My husband has become friends with him too. He's just like a brother to me, We've talked about why we never got together and concluded that we both were afraid of ruining a great friendship. We have seen each other go thru alot of stuff.
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@shedii (1487)
• India
27 Dec 06
Thats really sweet. Hope your friendship is long lasting. And, may you both find happiness & joy in this relationship! Thanks for responding!
@bimmer999 (1160)
• Philippines
26 Dec 06
yep its possible but also very probable that they would like each other too
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@shedii (1487)
• India
27 Dec 06
yeh its probale that they would like each other...thanks for your response!
@yasir2010 (284)
• Pakistan
26 Dec 06
yes,it mostly happened that a girl meet with boy they hardly become friends and after sometime they fall in love with each other. for your question i think it is very hard work to stop any feelings towards his patner but some people do that but 99% people fall in love
@shedii (1487)
• India
27 Dec 06
yeh thats true...thanks for your response!
@ashiflett (1045)
• United States
26 Dec 06
Yes, this is very possible...
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@shedii (1487)
• India
27 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
• India
26 Dec 06
Yes, why not. A girl and a guy can be just friends. Actually I got a friend from net who is really a nice guy & now we know each other personally & are good friends, nothing more.
@shedii (1487)
• India
27 Dec 06
Hope your friendship is long lasting & you find happiness in this relation ship. Thanks for your response!
@shashi792 (141)
• India
26 Dec 06
it is possible only in a case when both A grl[x] having a BF and A guy[y] r having GF Then both x and y can be friends forever
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@shedii (1487)
• India
27 Dec 06
thanks for your response! That can be possible.
• United States
2 Jan 07
First of all, it is possible for a guy and girl to just be friends. One of my closest friends is a guy and there is nothing but friendship between us. But as far as when friends become more than friends, the chances of the relationship ending is somewhat high. It really all depends on the individuals involved and whether they are willing to put their friendship at risk, because that is what happens when you cross the line between friendship and love.
@shedii (1487)
• India
2 Jan 07
thanks for your response!
@ddm610 (117)
• Philippines
28 Dec 06
yes it's possible. but the usual case in friendships is when one party falls in love with the other (his/her friend) but this friend doesn't love him/her and only considers him/her as a friend. so nothing happens; they still end up being friends.
@shedii (1487)
• India
30 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
• India
28 Dec 06
i think it will depend on the confidence they have to maintain their relation ship to wards a good relationship.
@shedii (1487)
• India
30 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
@luckyjohn (169)
• Pakistan
28 Dec 06
ofcors they can be only friends.
@shedii (1487)
• India
30 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
@bck_1409 (662)
• India
28 Dec 06
Yes it is possible. Ofcourse it depends on both of them and thier understandings. That is called a true friendship
@shedii (1487)
• India
30 Dec 06
thanks for responding!
• United States
28 Dec 06
I believe girls and guys can be friends without anything more. Some people are more involved in someone they may have in their life, or one/both may be gay and they're simply just friends. If they're both straight and single, it's still possible. Some people just enjoy a good laugh, conversation, and someone who will listen to their griping about work/school.
@shedii (1487)
• India
30 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
• India
27 Dec 06
Its little difficult for a guy and a girl to remain only friends for long time.
@shedii (1487)
• India
30 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
@emmet18 (1116)
• Romania
27 Dec 06
I guess so. Most of the time both of them confuse friendship with love and that is not good.
@shedii (1487)
• India
30 Dec 06
thanks for your response!
@xyzabc (87)
• India
27 Dec 06
I don't think a guy & a girl can be only friends. Someday it turns into love either one sided or both.
@shedii (1487)
• India
30 Dec 06
thanks for your response!