Can a person can married to a girl who is raped ?

India
December 26, 2006 8:54am CST
can a person can married to a girl who is raped ? sound to be weird question , but, if one is facing to this..answer is really hard ,but can u put urself at this situation and guess what will be ur answere... one of my friend ,is getting married to a girl who was raped by two boys at her school time ..he knews this truth..he is really in confusion..can u mylot friends can give suggestion ,so that i can help him..as i also dont know what to say to him..
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@Zhanec (1651)
• Malaysia
26 Dec 06
what's the problem that make ur friend has doubt in this marriage?Its beacsue she's no longer a virgin?anyhow,its her past and ur friend should not blame it on her.I mean ,do u think she ask for it,to get raped??For me,she's still a virgin-mentally because she;s being forced.
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• India
27 Dec 06
well ,thast nice suggestion ,it was just wrong done with her which she never expected.
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• India
26 Dec 06
Well, yes i will marry a girl who has been raped but will also make sure that this fact is not publically known as my parents have to live in this society. I promise you. I promised this to my love also that anything wrong happens with her (including rape, major accidents, burns), nothing is going to change my love for her. I simply want what i expect from my partner.
• India
27 Dec 06
yeah , if you love a person much .you should not consider the wrong.the rape was just forced against her wish. i think you love your lover very much..have great thoughts .well thanks for suggestion i will try to make him understand
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• United States
15 Apr 07
Being raped is not the persons fault. If he is having a issue with this he needs to sit down with his fiance and deeply talk about it. Because getting married with this confusion in his mind is not good. Communiciation is very important in marriage and this is one of the issues that should be talked about beforehand. Is he getting married because he loves her or does he feel sorry for her? Marriage is a good thing but if you marry for the wrong reasons it is not impossible but it can be hard to make the marriage work. He needs to ask himself why is he bothered by her being raped since it was not her fault that it happened. I would suggest to him that he and his fiance sit down when they are alone and talk about it. I would also suggest that they do this when there both in a good frame of mind and when no drinking has been done because drinking clouds the brain and this conversation both need to have clear minds.