my girlfriend...

@pelya178 (694)
United States
December 26, 2006 11:42am CST
since its the holidays, i went with my family to visit my other family in the country. its about a 6 hour drive from where i live now. (nyc) and since its so deep in the country my cell phone and alot of my family members cell phone dont have reception there. so i wasnt able to speak to my girlfriend for about 2days. she did send me emails to my phone n text msgs and voicemails, so that id have them when i get reception. So i was on my way back to the city n i began to talk to her over a messenger on my phone. but my battery died. so as soon as i got home i turned my computer on anxious to speak to her cuz i missed her so much. and then shes "too busy" to talk to me. she told me she was helping her mom around the house. so she couldnt really talk to me. so i decided to just go to sleep. n i get a phone call from her asking me whats wrong.n she told me she couldnt talk long on the phone anyway she just called to say " i love u" i didnt wanna make a big deal out of it becuz she already knew what was up. so i said nothing n i was just tired. so later when i woke up i got a bunch of emails from her asking whats wrong n she knows i was upset about not being able to talk to her, cuz she was busy. n its just that this time is a busy time of year n all this B.S. but i dont think she should pick n choose the times she wants to talk to me. N only talk to me when its convinenant for her. n especially becuz we hadnt talked in 2 days n she knows i missed her alot, its not like she HAD to help her mom around the house. she has 4 more brothers n sisters they were all there too. i mean i cant stay mad at her, today is her birthday n that would be a really bad way to spend a bday. anyway do u think im over-reacting? am i just being a big brat? should i just forget about it? or what should i do? whats ur advice?
3 responses
@cheenlly (3483)
• Philippines
26 Dec 06
well you just said it. You cant stay mad at her so forget about it and make it up for the days that you miss each other. Now its the perfect time, her birthday. Forget about it and enjoy each other and dont be over acting.
@pelya178 (694)
• United States
26 Dec 06
:-) thanks
• United States
26 Dec 06
I wouldn't worry about it too much, she may have been really really busy and even if she wasn't, i'm sure she missed you too and was just upset that you werent able to talk to her and so she made it that she couldnt talk to you so you would understand how she felt
@pelya178 (694)
• United States
26 Dec 06
yeah but thats pretty dumb if thats true. i dont think she would do that becuz she knows how much i missed her n how much she missed me. i dunno. but yea she knew ahead of time that i wouldnt be able to talk to her from where i was. anyway, thanks so much for ur input. :-)
• United States
26 Dec 06
I wouldn't worry about it too much if i were you, most likly she was actually really really busy and if she wasnt then she prolly just missed you alot and was upset you couldnt talk to her, so she made it so that she couldn't talk you so you would understand how she felt.