when my child got hospitalized , my father hvn't support for a single rupee??

@mcarps79 (1262)
Uganda
December 26, 2006 10:53pm CST
When my child who was at my in laws's home , I was about 3000 km apart of my in law's home(at my job place) and as I hear the news that he is some ill and will have to be hospitalized and then I hv informed the same to my father who is 12 km apart from my in law's home...they hv totally ignored to help and even not come to hospital to see him, how is he? Aftet this type of event how can I believe on him? What shud I do now..he has done such type of bad thing with me Now I am planning to not going to my home for atleast 5 years...
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@tanujarneja (2834)
• India
27 Dec 06
why he did so? ur child is his grandson.................. if he did so intentionally he deserves that you be out of his life now............
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@mcarps79 (1262)
• Uganda
27 Dec 06
he did that beacuse at the time pregnency of my wife they want that I hv to left my wife at my home(wiht my mother) but i hv left her at my in law's home and due to that ego problem arises between my father and my father in law.....fatheer-in-law is very good person , he has not any ego point of view..but my father is so much egoistic.... In ego he can that much bad , I can not beleive....
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• Philippines
6 Jun 07
iron out things with your dad then. it is better to make your father understand why you chose to leave your wife and child with her parents rather than with your family. it is easy to see that your wife will be more at ease to be with the family where she had grown up with.
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• Philippines
6 Jun 07
no, i will not do that. instead, i will go and see my father and ask why was he so indifferent at the time when his support was needed most. if he was financially incapable, at least he should have been around to lend some moral support. once clarifications are done, we can make up and be father and son/daughter again. htere is no substitute for a prevailing good relationship in the family. it is better that we learn to forgive and give more love and understanding to people who matter in our lives.
@mcarps79 (1262)
• Uganda
6 Jun 07
thnx a lot for such nice suggession , now i am trying same..as you hv told...means I always recievs his phone calls and respons him in well manner and as soon as I will got good time to take leave to go home , sure I will go then talk to him regarding this issue....