Christmas Bitter Sweet

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I had somewhat of a bitter sweet Christmas. I have a lot on my mind and I have to decide whether I should live with my husband or live with my mother and help her with the bills. My mother hasn't been financially stable for about a year and a half since she got fired from her job and I had to pay majority of the bills. Within that year I got married to my long time friend and we really want to move in together just the two of us so we feel more like husband and wife. But I have my mother who isn't doing good financially and I don't want her to get in even more debt than she already is.What should I do, should I live with my husband and live my life or should I live with my mother and help her with the bills?