do u agree to have friends with benefits!!??

India
December 28, 2006 8:13am CST
do u think its a good idea to have friends with the right kind of 'benefits'? or do u think that it adds more strain to your friendship and may even cause more pain than happiness? what do u think r the advantages n disadvantages of it?
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@kellahinx (372)
• United States
28 Dec 06
it depends on the personality of both people. if you both are the type that can fool around and not have it be emotional, then i think that it is fine. i think it can get complicated if people start expecting things from one another. from personal experience, i have fooled around with a number of my friends a couple times, but it hasn't interfered with our friendship at all. however, some people don't know how to not relate emotionally in situations like that, so it would not be good for them.
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• India
28 Dec 06
hmmm...but what do u do if the situation gets really complicated? and yet both dont wanna end it?
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@srhelmer (6934)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
28 Dec 06
If you were really friends, you wouldn't need the benefit part. I think relationships like that are doomed for failure.
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• India
28 Dec 06
what i mean is when u dont start off that way but then things happen?
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@msqtech (15226)
• United States
6 Feb 07
burned is how you end up and someone gets hurt.