Being a nice guy worth it?

United States
December 28, 2006 5:47pm CST
Time and time again I been so nice to the woman i dated, to only fine to be hurt later. But, I see woman get treated like crap and get hit on and they stay devoted to them, Why? So I start to wonder is it worth it, to be hurt your self.
4 responses
@justpjteb (183)
• United States
20 Mar 07
I hear ya man.. I dont understand it either. I have a best friend whos boyfriends cheats on her and uses her for her money and there still together. Where on the other hand I give my 100 percent and do everything for someone and either get cheated on or lied to just dont understand really!
@tater03 (1765)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I really don't know why some girls seem to like mean and bad men. But I would like to say please don't change your ways to find someone. It is not worth it. Someone will come along that will love you for who you are.
@kylesmiles (1910)
• United States
29 Dec 06
Hey there. I had my "bad boy" time and I was tired of it. I am glad that quickly passed. I knew I wanted to get married to someone I could trust and who would be there. Well my husband is a nice guy and he definitely finished last! ;) My husband also had his time when he wanted to be with the bad girl, but he quickly left that all behind! ;)
@sunshinecup (7871)
29 Dec 06
It's not you, it's the women you are dating. Trust me you'll find the one that will LOVE your a nice guy. I don't understand women that like the jerks, I was never one of those. I always went after the quite guys. Try to be a bit more choosier when looking for a girl. If you talk to them long enough, you'll be able to tell what kind of man she wants. If it isn't you, then move to the next. Keep your head up, it will happen, just not as fast as you would like it to sometimes.