A Place To Escape

@wolfie34 (26771)
United Kingdom
December 28, 2006 5:56pm CST
Do you have a place to escape to when it gets to much? Like when things get bad at home. For me the gym is my escape, it's my haven, its a place where I can get rid of the stress, lose the anger on the punch bag and release some much needed serotonin on the treadmill. It's a place where I find my inner peace and where no one can wind me up, nag me or get on my nerves. That gym is my saviour if I didn't have it I'd go mad!
17 responses
• United States
29 Dec 06
Hi. I have 2 children with developmental delays. I'm a stay at home mom as well. I know parenting in itself is very demanding. But, these "disabilities" and what goes along with them can be really trying. I also have anxiety issues. So, usually about once a week or so, I go to the movie theatre to see a movie. Yes, I can lock myself in my room and watch TV while my husband plays with the children downstairs. However, if I'm home, he knows it and often feels the need to "disrupt" me for little problems. If I'm at a movie theatre, I can immerse myself in the movie and not need to worry about the phone ringing, or little household things that need to be taken care of.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 06
Thank you very much for your response, welcome to Mylot and worthy of best response, appreciated.
• United States
29 Dec 06
Thank you. : ) My kids are really causing me anxiety today. I wish I could grab a movie tonight. But, it seems like I may need to go to Wal-mart instead. But, it's a great pass time, and not too much money, especially during the afternoon hours.
@patootie (3592)
29 Dec 06
Yes I do .. I have a very special place I visit .. it is a peaceful and quiet place ... just the sound of water lapping onto the shore and the wind blowing rigging against masts ... It is a place where I can reflect on life ... whilst enjoying the tranquility ... in the evening as the sun goes down slowly all the colour drains from the world .. bright colours become muted .. then turn into deep purples and greys .. before finally turning to shades of charcoal and then all is black as night ... In the very early hours of morning I am woken by the birds feverishly searching for food ... as the sun rises colour floods back into the world .. all seemingly too bright to look at .. everything has been refreshed with the nights rest ... then the early morning anglers stomp by in their waist length waders ... outboard engines break the mornings silence ... and I go to the little cafe for a hearty breakfast It's a beautiful place and I always come home feeling a sense of renewal ...
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 06
Definitely sounds like a great place to go!
• United States
10 Jan 07
Well, don't think that I am nuts, but you asked and this is my answer. If I am stressed and need a place to escape, I go take a walk in the desert. There are no people, cars or homes around. I am all alone, except for the spirit of God. I chat with Him, and I feel all better.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
10 Jan 07
Definitely not nuts, and I expect honesty, pointless in making stuff up! Thanks for sharing!
@Chiriac (286)
• Romania
29 Dec 06
My place I would always escape to would take place on an island, at night on the beach, crystal clear water, millions of stars in the sky or o a place full of puffy clouds and mist and am walking around looking at everything around me there is no one in sight just me and I sit down on one of the clouds and fall asleep sweet quietness.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
5 Jan 07
Thank you for sharing.
• United States
28 Dec 06
I MAY HAVE TO TRY THIS SUGGESTION,I am a mother of four with a husband thats not always pleasant to be near,I so need a haven of my own,mine is relaxing in a hot tub,but then right when I drift away(the beating on the door begins and the yelling(MOM ARE YOU DONE YET!!!!) UHHH
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
29 Dec 06
do you know my kids????
@ukchriss (2097)
5 Jan 07
I go to the beach. I love to sit and watch the sea coming in and out it reminds me life goes on no matter what happens, and i can sit and think while people watching, children are happerly playing, mums and dads relaxing. It makes you think about life and then all your troubles dont seem so bad...
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
5 Jan 07
The beach is a great place to go, especially when you watch the sun setting below the sea in the horizon.
@Lushlie (572)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I do....I have my home "office". It's a bedroom turned into my own space. I can go in there and do anything I want from surfing the net to scrapbooking. Or if I don't want to do anything I can just sit and stare at the wall. ;) Only thing is if my husband isn't home my daughter would be banging on the door to get in. ;)
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 06
Thanks for sharing, if you escape to a 'room' in the house, then the room would have to have a lock on it!
@sreedhar (576)
• India
5 Jan 07
I dont have any place to escape to when it gets all hazy out in my house . the best thing i do is to divert myself by indulging myself in a good book.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 06
I will get in my car and drive somewhere quiet and just sit and think which does not do me much good half the time lol as I end up in Tears but that is my way of escaping
@lulylove (1560)
• Brazil
29 Dec 06
I think that it is an excellent idea, but I have much fear to direct and taste not to leave thus alone. And will be for choosing to be alone or to direct with somebody, is better to be in house and not to escape.
@Solja420 (2503)
• United States
28 Dec 06
no..but when i wanna escape i just put on my ipod and blast it for about 2 hours
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 06
Brilliant! Music is a great way to escape, thanks for sharing, I also have my Ipod on when I am at the gym!
@lulylove (1560)
• Brazil
29 Dec 06
Yes I have. My room! Is enough I to close the door and to isolate me of the problems that are there it are. I can bind the well high sound and also forget everything what it happens.
@teenal (1400)
• Dublin, Ireland
29 Dec 06
I have a nice relaxing bath with bubbles and scented candles and go to bed with a good book and a big mug of hot chocolate.
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 06
Great idea too! Thanks for your response.
@lilly22 (35)
• Australia
29 Dec 06
Hi. My place to escape is my computer. It can take me anywhere and I forget all my problems.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
29 Dec 06
with three kids, a man, a cat, and live in sister i really don't have time to escape to a real place. so i escape in my books. i read alot. 4 or 5 books a month. but i am going to really make time for the gym. i would love to have a work out to fight away some of the stress of the day
@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
29 Dec 06
Reading is good, I used to read a lot now I hardly read at all. Thanks for your response.
@mbs730 (2147)
• Canada
29 Dec 06
At least you have a productive place to go if you need an escape! Mine is the least productive. Sometimes I just go out and buy chocolates or something... really bad!!
@emmet18 (1114)
• Romania
29 Dec 06
If I just whant to relax or something like that, I torn on my computer and spend a couple of hours. It is very relaxing.
@dontataru (244)
• Romania
29 Dec 06
at a party and on my bycicle...i feel freedom