What do you do about an insecure mate?

United States
December 29, 2006 8:15am CST
I am about to go nuts because my mate is so insecrue about everything I do. He doesn't even want me to be on mylot because he thinks I am going to meet someone else and that is not even on the aggenda for me. I know he is the one with the problem but how do I deal with it?
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@shooie (4988)
• United States
29 Dec 06
I'm glad I don't have that problem. I chat in chat rooms and all. My hubby trust me. Was he cheated on before? Or did you leave someone to be with him or anything like that. If that is the case maybe he's afraid it will happen again. My husband was cheated on by his first wife but He knows me pretty well and knows I wouldn't cheat on him.
@shooie (4988)
• United States
29 Dec 06
btw welcome to mylot and looks like we are neighbors...lol
• United States
31 Dec 06
I never cheated on him or anything like that but his parents had a bad marriage that lead to cheating and divorce and him being placed in a home for children and it has to have affected him.
• United States
5 Jan 07
that's no insecure thats controlling, how to deal get him to get some counselling
• United States
4 Jan 07
Tell him firmly that you are not going to put up with it. You don't plan on leaving or are you looking for anyone else. And then let him deal with his own problem.
• United States
5 Jan 07
I tell him to leave but he never does. He just likes to argue and I don't have him removed because he is my childs father and he has nowhere to go but the streets.