what is love? (ladies please help)

December 29, 2006 9:37am CST
when my wife asks me why i love her i get stuck for words and say because i do,she is never happy with that reponse so what should i say?. i love her i cant explain in words why please help me .....jimmy
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@Ravenladyj (22940)
• United States
29 Dec 06
Honestly..I would flat out ask her why that is so important and what she is so insecure about...You say you love, I am assuming you show her you love her and IMO that should be enough...explain to her how her questioning and doubting you makes you feel and then just tell her I love you because I love everything about you or something along those lines ya know.... insecurity can be a real b!tch but there is always a reason behind it
29 Dec 06
thank you
• United States
29 Dec 06
I don't think it has anything to do with insecurity. I think sometimes it's nice to hear it. Just like you like being told that you're loved everyday.
• United States
30 Dec 06
People do need to hear it. If we all said it to just one person tomorrow and we meant it, the world would change. There are people who never once heard their father say to them "I love you." I should know. I'm one of them.
• United States
29 Dec 06
I do the same thing...but it's the little things for me (as why I love my hubby). I just love being around him, I love his eyes, his smile, his laugh, I love the way he loves me and thinks I'm beautiful, I love his personality, his since of humor, his love for animals...well theres a few reasons. Oh and I love who I am when I'm with him. Anyway just tell her there's no one reason - that they're are many.
29 Dec 06
thank you
• United States
29 Dec 06
My husband will tell me things like I love you for your beautiful brown eyes, the way I smile when I am around friends and family, the way I get excited when I talk to my uncle that I hardly ever see, etc... Just think of the little things she does that makes you happy and say that is why you love her
29 Dec 06
thankyou
@moneymind (10524)
• Philippines
21 Jan 07
here's my personal definition for love; love is a powerful feeling or emotion which most of the time defies deffinition. all i can say now is good luck in finding the right definition or reason to tell your wife. greetings. : )
• United States
30 Dec 06
Next time she asks says, "Why does the sun rise each morning."