Missing a loved one

Philippines
December 30, 2006 10:17am CST
What do you do when you miss someone so much?
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24 responses
@birthlady (5613)
• United States
3 Jan 07
I cry! I also try to communicate with that person, and let them know how much I miss them and how much I love them. If I'm unable to do that, I get creative and will paint or write about the person, I feel closer that way.
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• Philippines
5 Jan 07
Thanks, I do cry too and somehow it seems to ease the pain. Too bad I cannot paint like you.
• India
2 Jan 07
i just close my eyes and see them and wont open my eyes till they totally sooth my heart
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@satyamss (870)
• India
2 Jan 07
i call him/her or just miss her!
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• India
31 Dec 06
miss them even more...keep thinking of the time spent with them miss them more by recollecting the time already spent with them...and then laughing about the funny moments...and then crying about the fact that the person is not with us any more at this moment :( And finally divert off thoughts to 1 more channel :P
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@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
31 Dec 06
I think about them. Like my grandfather I miss him.
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@Acts238girl (2088)
• United States
30 Dec 06
some people might advise you to go out and do something to try to get your mind off of your loved one.i don't think thats good advice.i think it's good to remember them as much as possible.sit down with a picture or a video of them and just try to remember the good times.
@gscs1838 (1536)
• Malaysia
30 Dec 06
Who are u missing...give them a huge shout to get their attention back again :)
• United States
30 Dec 06
this may sound silly but I sit down in front of their picture and talk to them. I lost my grandpa and we were very close. I miss having him around because he kept me on the straight and narrow. My husband thinks I nuts but it really helps me. I know he's listening.
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• Philippines
2 Jan 07
I also believe your grandpa is with you all the time, and if talking to his pic makes you feel good, you should continue doing so even if your husband calls you nuts.
@mishang (499)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
i try to call or message them right away. if they are still out of reach and i want to really get in touch, i then write them a letter.
@playgirl (1359)
• Philippines
15 Jan 07
do anything such as watching dvds listening soundtracks or malling
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• Pakistan
13 Jan 07
i remember good times spend with him and prays for his betterment
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@dholey (1383)
• India
6 Jan 07
i call them, i mail them, i scrap in there account, if they are not alive i just make bucket for them.
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@vyaasrad (568)
• India
5 Jan 07
have a drink and relax the next day ...life is to enjoy once you miss a person that's for only a day the next day its your life to be taken care,So its better to love your self
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@raj0019 (2627)
• Argentina
5 Jan 07
Whenever i miss someone beloved, i keep watching at her picture or keep reading her letters and greetings. It has not happened with me often though, and i hope that i wont need to face that situation in future.
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@Akeela (2079)
• Trinidad And Tobago
5 Jan 07
love sick - love sick need a hug
listen to songs that reminds me of them
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@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
5 Jan 07
I just look at their picture and wish that they were here with me.
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@jmcafam (2891)
• United States
30 Dec 06
If I can I talk to them on the phone or internet.If that is not possible I look at pictures and remember good times that I have had with them.
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@pendragon (3352)
• United States
30 Dec 06
My gf visits her family twice a yar which is about 2100 miles away from here, and I just about loose my mind every time.I know how much she loves them and how hard it is to be so far away from them for her,so I try to remain sane and ok,lol.I call, I play wih the dog a lot, she misses her too.I try to catch up on correspindance, just stay generally busy.I don't know if ut helps at all,I miss her so much.
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• India
30 Dec 06
My girl friend went to her native place now i am missing her a lot,i am getting cry.
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@kittu007 (946)
• United States
6 Jan 07
Now i am missing the one i love most.Not exaclty missing.But that person is moving far away from me.Feel like dying.Can you plz help me out as what to do?
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
With the modern technology, there are so many ways to keep in touch: by phone, by email, text, or yahoo/msn messenger. Keep yourself busy and socialize more, for all you know you may not be meant for each other and you will meet someone new. However if you are really destined for each other, distance is not a barrier. Keep a positive attitude.
• United States
30 Dec 06
You grieve. It is a natural process, and it takes time to heal somewhat. I'm sorry for your loss.
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
Thanks, Margie. Happy New Year!