Getting married

United States
January 1, 2007 9:45pm CST
My girlfriend wants to get married but I don't. What should I do?
5 responses
@ebsharer (5517)
• United States
2 Jan 07
dont get married becuase in the end it will not work out. if you don't want to marry her then tell her that.
• United States
2 Jan 07
I'm scared of losing her
@diansinta (7550)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 07
if you don't want to married her, then you are not affraid to loossing her, i think. i just wondering the reason that you don't want to married her?
@LovingIt (5398)
• United States
2 Jan 07
Do you love her? Do you want to spend the rest of your life with her? What is the reason that you don't want to marry her? What you should do depends on why you don't want to get married. It sounds like it's time to do some serious thinking here. If you aren't in love with her enough to marry her, it's probably time to let her go so that she can find someone who truly loves her.
@Jshean20 (14367)
• Canada
2 Jan 07
Well definately don't propse to her if you're not even ready to be married to this girl. Divorce rates are high even with the both parties wanting to get into the marriage to begin with, I imagine your chances of divorce would be even higher since you don't want to be in the relationship. Sounds like this girl cares about you a lot if she wishes to become married to you. Do you feel this way about her? If not you maybe should get out of the relationship before she gets really hurt..
@hsandy (96)
• China
2 Jan 07
I think you should have a talk with your girlfriend and explain your ideas to her and ask her about her thoughts on it.
@puma_nz (1001)
• New Zealand
2 Jan 07
Be straight up and tell her..