Will u suggest LOVE or ARRANGED MARRIAGE to your children?

Arranging my child's marriage is not even an option. Personally, I would not be happy if I could not follow my heart and love who I truly wanted to love. I would never force my children to do anything they were not willing to do, especially when it came to love. Not saying that I oppose it all together, because I do embrace the cultures and traditions of other countries. But if I ever have kids of my own, they will grow up knowing that they have choices in life and that it is up to them to choose what's best for them. Of course, I will guide them when needed...but at the end of the day when it comes to love and relationship I want them to feel like they are doing it because they want to not because they have to.

i will leave the choice to them

I have no problem with either but I will want them to discuss it with us as their parents about their plans and ask our advise much before things go out of hand and that may ruin two families. I will have to trust my education to the child and should understand reasons behind his or her choice and discuss it out rather than making a decision blindly.

NO I WONT DO THAT HOW IF THE CHILD DOES NOT LOVE THE PERSON WHAT LIFE THEY COULD BE TOGETHER

Prefer love,if you don`t love,how can you can stand long for the marriage

I will suggest LOVE since I believe that everybody should have a choice in who they want to be maried. Arranged marriages don't allow for choice.

N, I think they shold get married. especially if they have children.

I would prefer my children to marry for love. People should be able to choose who they want to marry, only they know who would be right for them and they want to spend their life with.

See why not. If I ran into someone I really liked and think the person may be good for my child, why not set things into motion? I, however, will not force my child into any relationship without his/her consent. Will just get the ball rolling!

Arranged marriage is always a strange concept for me. I don't know how it could work in most instances. Marriage based on love must be more successful.

I also agree with your opinion because both of them will get ample scope to know each other before marriage because marriage is not a child's play.

I prefer love marriage. We have so much to overcome when we marry why should there be the obstacle that we dont know each other or end up not interested. Its better to find out if you love each other first. I think.

I would let my children decide their way.Although I would surely take interest in knowing their heart.Its their life and they are the one who's goin to spend the rest of their life with the person they choose.

i will suggest to search for a perfect 'pair'

An arranged marriage used to sound like an old fashioned or restrictive idea until I began to look around at what happens for some people when they choose for themeslves. Ten years ago I would have said that love is the only reason to marry, but maybe having a team of wiser people help out with selecting a mate isn't so crazy afterall. Who knows?

I want my Daughter to choose the person she wants to marry .I would not ever consider arranging a marriage for her.

Who says you have to suggest marriage just kidding. Being divorced myself i would suggest love and too be sure dont rush into anything.

I will prefer arrange marriage, but will tell them to that they must know each other well before engaging in it. As it is there responsibility to live a happy life in next future. Love marriages are also acceptable but nowadays they can be converted to arrange marriages.

I myself prefer love marriage amd will certainly suggest my children also to do the same thing. I just dont understand who introduced the concept of arranged marriage and why !!

I think a person should thouroughly know the person he's marrying and like him for the same qualities. Arranged marriages turn out to be a bigger gamble as the parents only look for a specific set of qualities (well settled, decent background, family etc) in their chidren's spouse. Ultimately it's the children who have to spend their lives together and it becomes very difficult to adjust if the natures of the two people are totally different. if their interests do not match, marriage becomes a burden. We need to understand the purpose of marriage. you have to like and understand the person whom you want to spend your life with. U need to have at least a few common interests, common dreams, you need to like the company of that person. Even if an arranged match, parents should consider these factors as well. you should enjoy the company of your spouse or you'll not live your life, you'll just spend it.