anyone out there?

@DIXIE444 (123)
United States
January 2, 2007 9:41pm CST
Does anyone else have my luck? I start discussions with legit questions that I want advice on and I get NO responses...WAAAAA!! I feel so rejected sometimes. LOL Does this ever happen to anyone else?
4 responses
3 Jan 07
If you look at how many people are on mylot its amazing really if you get any replies. Some discussions I have seen only ask for a simple answer or is a popular question. This seems to get the most replies. When you start a discussion try to put it in one of your interests and then more selective people may see it when answering a similiar discussions. I put one discussions on today and got one reply. I am beginning to just respond instead. There are so many stupid questions asked, that before you know it your dicussion is in number 9 in the line and some people may not search that far back. Its not personal, I think everyone feels that way when they first start. Good luck!!!
@DIXIE444 (123)
• United States
3 Jan 07
Thanks for your comments... I know that I dont really go back too far either because I alwasy find something to reply to and then when I get back to the main discussion page again, there are all new topics there and I start the cycle all over again. LOL
@rusty2rusty (6767)
• Defiance, Ohio
4 Feb 07
I find that happening to me as well. What you need to do is some good friends who check and reply to their friends discussion. That is how it will help better. If you see someone startanswering your questions alot. Add them as a friend and start answering them back. It is really like network. Once you get a broad base of friends who are willing to help you out as much as you do them. You will see a big difference. (Just a suggestion because I don't know if you do this already or not. No offense.)
• Defiance, Ohio
4 Feb 07
Oh another tip. Get your post count up. For someone reason members don't seem to like to answer members who low post count as well. Good luck.
@maryannemax (12173)
• Sweden
4 Feb 07
don't feel bad. i have lots of discussions before with zero responses but i don't get bothered about it. maybe there are just too many discussions that is why my discussions can't be visited anymore. but somehow, after sometime, they are alive again and someone has just responded. you'll get surprised from time to time in this site! so, don't worry much.
3 Jan 07
happens to us all especialy the ugly ones like me