is it wright for a lady to propose to a man for marriage

Nigeria
January 3, 2007 1:47am CST
pls what do think about this if she does who will be the husband of the house, say something about this
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11 responses
@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
5 Jan 07
Of course a woman can propose to her man. My aunt did it :) As for myself i will never able to do that. I'm still a little girl inside that wait for her prince to propose her :P Hopefully right now we are engaged and he made the move :) Hoping to get married in 4-5 years :)
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• United States
5 Jan 07
It is great to be a romantic and I agree with your dream of a man sweeping you off your feet. I wouldn't want the "well you asked me" thrown back at me if we had marital problems. Men are weird that way they would use things such as that but I don't think a woman has ever thought to use their purposal against them. But I do give credit to those woman out there that got tired of waiting for their man to do it and got the courage to do it themselves. Good luck with your quest of marriage it can be a wonderful life changing adventure with that right someone...:)
• India
5 Jan 07
i don't see anything apparently wrong with a women proposing marraige. if a man can do it why not a woman?
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@lafavorito (2966)
• Philippines
5 Jan 07
marriage - marriage
I see nothing wrong with that. The man will still be the husband of the house, the woman just inititated the act of proposing. A man cannot concieve so he can't be the wife and mother.
• United States
6 Jan 07
I see nothing wrong with a woman proposing to the man either.
@Hayzat (68)
• Malaysia
6 Jan 07
yup no wrong. the rational is this, a marriage life is hoped to be eternal, n the spouses will live happily together ever after. The key element of this successful marriage start as early as when we choose our partner. usually man do this while lady will wait. logically speaking men isr the one who r doing the selection job while lady s not. Dunt u think that if woman does this also, i mean choose tham man that suits her life veri much, in most probability he ll get the mr right rather than being a waiting party, wont it?.
• United States
6 Jan 07
yes it is.. if a woma wants to propose let her.. it doesnt change anything the only thing that changed was the lady grew a pair of balls be4 the guy.. lol
@Bee1955 (3886)
• United States
6 Jan 07
The husband is the husband and the wife is the wife. It doesnt matter who did the asking. I asked my husband to marry me!
@marciascott (25554)
• United States
5 Jan 07
No a woman should not propose to a man. It is not the thing to do. always the Man proposes.
@moneymind (10521)
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
well now a days that we are seeing more and more liberty for women i think it is but also right for women to do the proposing. i see nothing wrong with it and there is no law prohibiting such thing. greetings. : )
@swatig (1187)
• India
3 Jan 07
No matter who propose, man or woman, if both agree then these small things not coming in love. coz love itself brings undertanding between both and who will be the husband is not decided by the person who propose...it itself hear funny....lol
@shashi792 (141)
• India
3 Jan 07
hey here it really dosent matter who proposes.but the understanding between them be4 marraige and after marraige is more imp.... whoever be the husband of the house it's imp to run ur life smoothly with out any sorrow
@yugi_sen (1741)
• India
3 Jan 07
hm a peculiar thought. yes i girl can always propose it her right too. Husband is just a gender denomination so husbands will allways be male and wife is female. who gets the major authority depends on the love you both have.
• India
3 Jan 07
I think it is OK.